patting my belly when he thought I was asleep This was super cute because he is very reserved, and while I know he is really excited about the LO, he is also not an incredibly emotionally expressive person in many ways. For example, the first time that I felt my LO move and you could SEE him moving because my belly was moving, he said "Um, honey, what did you think was going to happen?". So, last night, on two separate occasions when we were asleep in bed, he woke up and patted/rubbed my belly. It was really sweet. I haven't said anything to him, and won't - I'll let it be his special moment. But, now I wonder how many times he has done it that I have missed?? Anyone else caught their DH in the act of doing something really sweet, when they didn't think you would notice?