Late BFPs anyone??????

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  1. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    Hi ladies. I'm not pregnant yet... well, not sure. I'm currently 5 days late and I'm wondering if any of you got your BFP late with prior BFNs.

    I'm currently on CD 36, 17dpo. I normally have 31 day cycles. I've been having a lot of CM ever since ovulation. On 9DPO I spotted a bit of pink and I just figured af was coming a lot sooner than usual and I decided to just put on a pantyliner that night. The next morning there was a few spots of brown (old blood I'm guessing) but the spotting was gone and nothing since. On CD 34 I started to have EWCM or snotty looking CM and I keep seeing that this could be a good indication of pregnancy BUT I keep getting Also, the side of my left breast (including under armpit?) started getting really achy today. Not sure what's going on but I'm searching for some hope. Did any of you ladies have a really late BFP???

    BTW... Last night I took a FRER but it was a negative. 4 hours later I took another look at it and it had the faintest line. I tried to confirm this morning and that one looked negative too (until a few hours later... again, lol) so I'm positive at this point that those were evaps. Dang it!
     
  2. MrsRohner

    MrsRohner Well-Known Member

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    I have not received my BFP yet either (now on cycle day 30 of my usual 26-28 day cycles) so I also presented this question in the TWW, well to be honest it was more of a venting post because I was so disappointed last night after the bfn! And there were several ladies on there who said that for them, and others they have heard from, it is quite common to get a very late BFP! One lady said when she was pregnant the first time she didn't get hers until about 2 weeks after her missed period!

    FX for you and lots of :dust: your way!
     
  3. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    Oh wow! 2 weeks... i hope this is our case (well maybe not 2 weeks but getting late BFPs, lol) My heart just can't take another BFN, so I understand why you needed to vent. My DH wants me to test again but I just can't. I tested 9/8 and yesterday am and both looked negative. Now both of them have lines but I know they are evaps :dohh: I think I'm going to give AF a little more time and then if it's a no-show I'll test Monday. I also posted in the 2WW... and in the Pregnancy first trimester forum to see if I can find someone with their late BFPs :) It gives me hope now knowing that some women get their :bfp: late. Good luck to you too hun and Thanks for responding!!!!!!!!
    :dust::dust::dust:
     
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    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Mummy2B21 but I haven't gotten a BFP. :winkwink:
     
  6. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    Hi have you tested again???

    I'm on CD38, 1 week late. I caved and took a test last night... BFN :cry: I'm almost positive at this point that whatever is going on, it's not because a little bean is getting comfy. Maybe I'm just having an off month. Will keep the thread going just in case anyone is going through the same thing.
     
  7. nickynora

    nickynora 1 fab 4yr old & 1 angel x

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    Hi hun! This has just happened to me!

    My last cycle was 30 days at most they have been 35 days. And I'm now CD45! I have just this morning go a faint bfp. I had a super super faint one 2 days ago, but bfn all the others till today.

    So cautiously optimistic!
     
  8. MrsRohner

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    No BFP for me yet. cycle day 32 today usually 26 days. But I got some good news for us today from my sister! She said that on both of her pregnancies she didnt get a BFP until two weeks after her missed period and it had to be FMU still that much later!

    I asked her (because she is also a labor and delivery RN) why, if other people get them so early, would I still be getting BFNs? She said it can happen, everyone is different so that I should wait for another week and then test again and another week and so on. She said in two weeks time i should have a positive or AF.

    FX for us girls :)
     
  9. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    OMG!!! That definitely gives me some hope. This morning I was crushed when I got another BFN on a FRER! I don't usually let my emotions get the best of me but I cried (deeply) for an hour and I couldn't stop. I already had so much going on, so maybe that plays into today's breakdown as well. I know "it'll happen when the time is right" but I just let my emotions get the best of me. Thank you for sharing that with us and CONGRATS on your BFP!!!! Wishing you a H&H 9 months!!!!
     
  10. MissChristal

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    Thank you so much for that! I really hope we get our BFPs! I think I had lost a little bit of faith because when I got pregnant in February I got a bfp a few days before af was due... so, I was thinking that it would be the same. Guess I can't forget that not only is every woman different, but each pregnancy as well. Keeping my FX'd for us!
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  11. MrsRohner

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    Yes you are absolutely right! Every pregnancy is different. Because I am an internet junkie I read tons of stories from preganant women and I have seen several instances where women who got early positives were so surprised when on another pregnancy they didnt get a positive until a week or more after a missed AF!! So do not lose heart :)

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  12. MissChristal

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    Hi! CD 42, 11 days late now. I got a BFN yesterday and this morning, but I'm going to make a doc appt. Have you had any luck yet? How late are you now and have u tested again? Sorry for all the questions lol :winkwink:
     
  13. nickynora

    nickynora 1 fab 4yr old & 1 angel x

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    Hi hun!

    I got my bfp on CD45, and was anywhere from 10-15 days late at the time!

    So might still be hope!

    Fingers crossed x
     
  14. MrsRohner

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    Maybe you can wait until you are 14 or 15 days past? Then that would be two weeks past, people do get them that late so if you can hold out you maybe could save yourself a trip! :) I am going to force myself to wait!
     
  15. MissChristal

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    oh wow! It really does give me some hope. I'm going to try and keep myself grounded so that I don't fall flat on my face in case I find out I'm not pregnant. Thank you for your response! BTW were you getting bfns before you finally got your bfp?
     
  16. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    Actually, I'm going to do just that! This Friday will make 2 weeks so I'll wait till then. Hopefully we can get some good news... our anniversary is on Monday so that would be perfect. Oh please oh please be a BFP [-o< lol

    fx'd!!!!!
     
  17. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    What day are you testing?
     
  18. nickynora

    nickynora 1 fab 4yr old & 1 angel x

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    Yeah I got bfn right from 4 days before I thought af was due all way till my bfp! I kept testing just incase, I got my bfp the day I decided I'd be going to docs if I got another bfn!

    x
     
  19. MrsRohner

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    That would be an awesome anniversary gift :) Can't wait to hear!!
     
  20. MissChristal

    MissChristal Well-Known Member

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    wow! You went through a lot of tests lol I been testing every few days or so. DH would just have a fit if I took a FRER every day.
     

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