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[jl.]

does anyone feel like since they got pregnant they don't even see their friends anymore? I've got hyperemesis so used to be just in bed alot, now things are getting slightly better i just feel like i've lost everyone

all my friends do is go out and like drink so it's not as if i could go along to go clubbing.

My OH is currently working in 4 hours away on the train for a good few months so i'm constantly alone.

I actually hate the weekends because i have nothing to do/ no one to see and i miss my OH so much. I want him to come home

 

[x__amour]

Yep.

 

[jl.]

I think if he was home i wouldn't feel like this but i can't handle being apart from him and I just feel like all i do is cry all the time.

He can't come home cause he's got to work hard for me and little one and doesn't get enough time off.

I've been to see him once but the train tickets cost like £80 so it's not like i could do it all the time.

I just want time to move faster.
It's not even a case of my hormones anymore i actually feel like i've turned into a depressed recluse.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

Unfortunately pregnancy is one of those things that really shows you who are true friends and who actually can be bothered. Though don't give up all hope on them, maybe you can suggest going out to a meal with a few friends? Or shopping? Cinema? Just somethingt that doesn't involve drinking! You might find your friends just dont know how to approach

Buttt... yes I lost 99% of my 'friends' when I fell pregnant. Chin up if there's any pregnancy groups you could go to or something you could try and make other friends in similar positions??

And regarding OH. I hate it when my OH goes away too.

 

[KiwiMOM]

I know exactly how you feel

"guys, couldn't we have like a movie night or SOMETHING, even on a thursday night JUST so I can feel like we're still friends??"

it mostly sucks because I live with all of my friends in a flat and when they all go out and OH doesn't feel like staying home with me (more often than not) I end up home alone and we don't have tv or anything so its like: "yay another 8pm bedtime on Saturday for me..."

 

[jl.]

Unfortunately pregnancy is one of those things that really shows you who are true friends and who actually can be bothered. Though don't give up all hope on them, maybe you can suggest going out to a meal with a few friends? Or shopping? Cinema? Just somethingt that doesn't involve drinking! You might find your friends just dont know how to approach

Buttt... yes I lost 99% of my 'friends' when I fell pregnant. Chin up if there's any pregnancy groups you could go to or something you could try and make other friends in similar positions??

And regarding OH. I hate it when my OH goes away too.

I try but most of the time it's like they have better plans to go out and drink and i don't blame them cause thats what i used to be like.
It's so sad, I just feel like i'm single cause i don't have him here and feel like he is missing so much

I'm having such a crap pregnancy with my hyperemesis and my stupid PUPPP rash and everything and I just feel like i've had enough and want this to be over

 

[jl.]

I know exactly how you feel

"guys, couldn't we have like a movie night or SOMETHING, even on a thursday night JUST so I can feel like we're still friends??"

it mostly sucks because I live with all of my friends in a flat and when they all go out and OH doesn't feel like staying home with me (more often than not) I end up home alone and we don't have tv or anything so its like: "yay another 8pm bedtime on Saturday for me..."

I'm living with my parents until OH gets back and then we are going to find a flat but there isn't even a set date on when he's coming home so i'm scared i'll go into labour without him aswell.

I know what you mean though, i just try to sleep as much as possible during the days so that time goes quicker. I've had like three naps today.
That sounds really pathetic doesn't it?

 

[we can't wait]

Sadly, this is pretty normal.
It's just part of having a child. You should do prenatal yoga, or join a mommy group! It'll get you out & around other moms/moms-to-be.

 

[KiwiMOM]

I know exactly how you feel

"guys, couldn't we have like a movie night or SOMETHING, even on a thursday night JUST so I can feel like we're still friends??"

it mostly sucks because I live with all of my friends in a flat and when they all go out and OH doesn't feel like staying home with me (more often than not) I end up home alone and we don't have tv or anything so its like: "yay another 8pm bedtime on Saturday for me..."

I'm living with my parents until OH gets back and then we are going to find a flat but there isn't even a set date on when he's coming home so i'm scared i'll go into labour without him aswell.

I know what you mean though, i just try to sleep as much as possible during the days so that time goes quicker. I've had like three naps today.
That sounds really pathetic doesn't it?

maybe, but thats exactly what I do too

 

[jl.]

Sadly, this is pretty normal.
It's just part of having a child. You should do prenatal yoga, or join a mommy group! It'll get you out & around other moms/moms-to-be.

I don't know if there is anything like that around where i live.

I know it can be normal to be like this but it would be so much better if i had my man here

 

[jl.]

I know exactly how you feel

"guys, couldn't we have like a movie night or SOMETHING, even on a thursday night JUST so I can feel like we're still friends??"

it mostly sucks because I live with all of my friends in a flat and when they all go out and OH doesn't feel like staying home with me (more often than not) I end up home alone and we don't have tv or anything so its like: "yay another 8pm bedtime on Saturday for me..."

I'm living with my parents until OH gets back and then we are going to find a flat but there isn't even a set date on when he's coming home so i'm scared i'll go into labour without him aswell.

I know what you mean though, i just try to sleep as much as possible during the days so that time goes quicker. I've had like three naps today.
That sounds really pathetic doesn't it?

maybe, but thats exactly what I do too

It must be hard aswell cause you are only 12 weeks so have a while to go
The only thing getting me through this is knowing that in three months time i'll have my man and my wee man in my life.