Long train ride with a Subchorionic Hematoma??

[mdjoy]

I am scheduled to go see family via a 20 hour train ride. My APRN feels I should have no restriction so I am skepticle to ask them if it's ok. I am a nervous wreck over this this as due to my life,I really am unable to take it easy too much. I am planning to bring my 2 year old to his dad where he is going to keep him there for a month. Tried to convince him to come here, then I would go there to get him. Debated on cancelling but really, for me to relax at all during this pregnancy I will need him to take him for a little bit, plus I feel awful...can't do much with him and house is a mess. I am hoping that if I can have a month to take it easy this thing will clear up....fx'ed. Anyone travel while having a SCH?

 

[October2013]

Never traveled for the brief time I had mine but personally I wouldn't think traveling would be an issue. Especially if you're sitting/ resting for 20 hours. As long as you're not doing lots of heavy lifting or strenuous activity. I'd think the break to be off your feet would be a good thing, but that's just my personal opinion.
Has your SCH actually caused any bleeding for you?

 

[mdjoy]

Never traveled for the brief time I had mine but personally I wouldn't think traveling would be an issue. Especially if you're sitting/ resting for 20 hours. As long as you're not doing lots of heavy lifting or strenuous activity. I'd think the break to be off your feet would be a good thing, but that's just my personal opinion.
Has your SCH actually caused any bleeding for you?

I actually rescheduled it. My sis, cuz and older son are going the 20th. I initially had mine planned for tomorrow but after I found this out I booked it for then so my son can help with the bags/stroller and lil guy so I don't strain a lot. But who knows, I have the laziest 15 year old on earth so Idk how much help he will be :-/... No bleeding so far but am starting to get a funny colored discharge..sorry for TMI. It's yellowish/tannish. Had her check for BV tho but it seems to be getting darker. Odd, hope all is ok. I did notice that before my mmc..and really have been feeling fairly good the past 3 days so I hope it's not that.

 

[iluvmyfamily]

I was told at four wks pregnant thru a scan that I had it. Doc scanned me so early because I kept bleeding. When I went back to my appt two wks later the sch was gone. It dissolved on its own. I went about my life while I still had it even tho my doc put me on pelvic rest. The only thing I didn't do was have sex. But I lift up my two yr old and ten month old. Idk if u have to send ur son to his dads for a month but its what makes u feel more comfy.

 

[October2013]

Never traveled for the brief time I had mine but personally I wouldn't think traveling would be an issue. Especially if you're sitting/ resting for 20 hours. As long as you're not doing lots of heavy lifting or strenuous activity. I'd think the break to be off your feet would be a good thing, but that's just my personal opinion.
Has your SCH actually caused any bleeding for you?

I actually rescheduled it. My sis, cuz and older son are going the 20th. I initially had mine planned for tomorrow but after I found this out I booked it for then so my son can help with the bags/stroller and lil guy so I don't strain a lot. But who knows, I have the laziest 15 year old on earth so Idk how much help he will be :-/... No bleeding so far but am starting to get a funny colored discharge..sorry for TMI. It's yellowish/tannish. Had her check for BV tho but it seems to be getting darker. Odd, hope all is ok. I did notice that before my mmc..and really have been feeling fairly good the past 3 days so I hope it's not that.

Lol well I hope he will step up and help you out.

That's odd, I also had a tan/ yellowish discharge, but it happened after my bleed. I think it's gone now and I'm battling what I believe is a baaaaad yeast infection. Ugh I can't catch a break!
Are you going for your next appt soon? Mine is three weeks from yesterday, and we have already seen the hb, but this appt we are supposed to hear it. Even though I feel like death, I'm so worried of having a mmc between now and then. Probably currently my biggest fear, at least in pregnancy.

 

[mdjoy]

I was told at four wks pregnant thru a scan that I had it. Doc scanned me so early because I kept bleeding. When I went back to my appt two wks later the sch was gone. It dissolved on its own. I went about my life while I still had it even tho my doc put me on pelvic rest. The only thing I didn't do was have sex. But I lift up my two yr old and ten month old. Idk if u have to send ur son to his dads for a month but its what makes u feel more comfy.

Yea, I don't necessarily have to but he hasn't seen his dad since we moved almost 2 years ago, just Skype and his dads been getting a lil anxious about seeing him. Will be good for him..lol, and a lil break is always nice. I didn't need it when raising my 15 year old but I sure need it now!

 

[iluvmyfamily]

I wish I can do that with n four!! Lolol

 

[mdjoy]

Never traveled for the brief time I had mine but personally I wouldn't think traveling would be an issue. Especially if you're sitting/ resting for 20 hours. As long as you're not doing lots of heavy lifting or strenuous activity. I'd think the break to be off your feet would be a good thing, but that's just my personal opinion.
Has your SCH actually caused any bleeding for you?

I actually rescheduled it. My sis, cuz and older son are going the 20th. I initially had mine planned for tomorrow but after I found this out I booked it for then so my son can help with the bags/stroller and lil guy so I don't strain a lot. But who knows, I have the laziest 15 year old on earth so Idk how much help he will be :-/... No bleeding so far but am starting to get a funny colored discharge..sorry for TMI. It's yellowish/tannish. Had her check for BV tho but it seems to be getting darker. Odd, hope all is ok. I did notice that before my mmc..and really have been feeling fairly good the past 3 days so I hope it's not that.

Lol well I hope he will step up and help you out.

That's odd, I also had a tan/ yellowish discharge, but it happened after my bleed. I think it's gone now and I'm battling what I believe is a baaaaad yeast infection. Ugh I can't catch a break!
Are you going for your next appt soon? Mine is three weeks from yesterday, and we have already seen the hb, but this appt we are supposed to hear it. Even though I feel like death, I'm so worried of having a mmc between now and then. Probably currently my biggest fear, at least in pregnancy.

Lol, he wouldn't help get clothes out of the dryer for me just now...so am doubtful.. I will hang $$ in front of him and he will ... Yea this is weird but I am prone to getting bacterial infections. I would now and then round my period and had them constant with my youngest son. My body is very sensitive to hormonal changes but it is looking almost brown at times :/. I had them do a urine as it's been a little cloudy and am having back cramps so maybe it is from the urethra? That can happen with a uti too. It is odd because when I wipe I do get a lot of mucus but is clear and wet (tmi)..my next apt isn't until 4/17! Am tempted to have them check things out before I leave tho. This dr see's you every 6 weeks. I could of sworn my dr back home was every 4. I would feel so much better. Prt of why I bought the Doppler. Am also terrified of a mmc. Especially since wed I have been feeling good..a little gaggy in the am but no more fatigue and sickness is way down..actually been starving! So def not like me when pregnant

 

[mdjoy]

I wish I can do that with n four!! Lolol

Hahaa! Knowing me he will be by my side when I am on my way back! Lol, his dad just asked if I wrote my 500 page "rule book" for him yet! He is always cracking jokes about what a nut I am with our son.. lol, I am just protective!

 

[iluvmyfamily]

Lol u sound soooo much like me!! Ppl think I'm mean but
It's just I have my own way of raising my kids and I do have a lot of rules lol

 

[mdjoy]

Lol u sound soooo much like me!! Ppl think I'm mean but
It's just I have my own way of raising my kids and I do have a lot of rules lol

Lol, yea..well I'm kind of a push over mom but if someone is taking them I'm pretty crazy. My sis babysat my oldest for me and threatened to quit if I didn't stop calling to ask what he looks like and if he ate his food...smh. Lol, nit as bad with this one but I have been home more with him and you know how men can be...lol. If it don't look broke it's not. This one is a handful really. He will be 3 next month and is so wild. He puts things in his mouth that don't belong there..you need to watch him eat because the boy thinks he can take adult sized bites,,or bigger! I have knob protectors on the door cuz he tries to escape and had to wrap duct tape around those cuz he figured out how to take them off...lol, he is that child you see on the "kiddie leash!" Tries to fly off high places as if he is super man...ugh...he is my worry child!

 

[iluvmyfamily]

Omg u just described my two yr old son. He's a handful but he's violent. Today he bit his six yr old sis in the face right near her eye! The other day my ten month old was laying on the floor and he walked on his face like he was part of the floor and made his nose bleed. He closes doors on the babys head. He's toooooo much

 

[October2013]

Never traveled for the brief time I had mine but personally I wouldn't think traveling would be an issue. Especially if you're sitting/ resting for 20 hours. As long as you're not doing lots of heavy lifting or strenuous activity. I'd think the break to be off your feet would be a good thing, but that's just my personal opinion.
Has your SCH actually caused any bleeding for you?

I actually rescheduled it. My sis, cuz and older son are going the 20th. I initially had mine planned for tomorrow but after I found this out I booked it for then so my son can help with the bags/stroller and lil guy so I don't strain a lot. But who knows, I have the laziest 15 year old on earth so Idk how much help he will be :-/... No bleeding so far but am starting to get a funny colored discharge..sorry for TMI. It's yellowish/tannish. Had her check for BV tho but it seems to be getting darker. Odd, hope all is ok. I did notice that before my mmc..and really have been feeling fairly good the past 3 days so I hope it's not that.

Lol well I hope he will step up and help you out.

That's odd, I also had a tan/ yellowish discharge, but it happened after my bleed. I think it's gone now and I'm battling what I believe is a baaaaad yeast infection. Ugh I can't catch a break!
Are you going for your next appt soon? Mine is three weeks from yesterday, and we have already seen the hb, but this appt we are supposed to hear it. Even though I feel like death, I'm so worried of having a mmc between now and then. Probably currently my biggest fear, at least in pregnancy.

Lol, he wouldn't help get clothes out of the dryer for me just now...so am doubtful.. I will hang $$ in front of him and he will ... Yea this is weird but I am prone to getting bacterial infections. I would now and then round my period and had them constant with my youngest son. My body is very sensitive to hormonal changes but it is looking almost brown at times :/. I had them do a urine as it's been a little cloudy and am having back cramps so maybe it is from the urethra? That can happen with a uti too. It is odd because when I wipe I do get a lot of mucus but is clear and wet (tmi)..my next apt isn't until 4/17! Am tempted to have them check things out before I leave tho. This dr see's you every 6 weeks. I could of sworn my dr back home was every 4. I would feel so much better. Prt of why I bought the Doppler. Am also terrified of a mmc. Especially since wed I have been feeling good..a little gaggy in the am but no more fatigue and sickness is way down..actually been starving! So def not like me when pregnant

Aw you poor thing. My next appt after the one on the 12th week isn't until 19 weeks! How am I supposed to go 7 weeks without knowing for sure everything is ok?! I bet you could get them to check you out before your trip... I'd try at least. For piece of mind.
I'm also prone to bacterial infections. I've had countless UTI's, yeast infections and BV (a few times) throughout my young adult life. I'm only about 9 weeks now and I've already had two yeast infections and a uti since getting pregnant!
I used to get yeast infections after my periods and a uti every time I changed sexual partners. I have this issue before, during and right after my period, after drinking alcohol, and sometimes after sex, where it burns like HELL to pee and the burning stings long after in my urethra. It used to randomly flare up in childhood, too. It's horrible!

 

[mdjoy]

Omg u just described my two yr old son. He's a handful but he's violent. Today he bit his six yr old sis in the face right near her eye! The other day my ten month old was laying on the floor and he walked on his face like he was part of the floor and made his nose bleed. He closes doors on the babys head. He's toooooo much

Omg yes! So is mine! Not biting yet..tried a few times but ummm no, i'll pop his lil butt for that one. He hits a lot and when he is pissed at you for yelling at him he screams "don't say bad words" and throws something at you. I swear my oldest was so calm at this age...such a difference! I am so nervous what he will be like with a baby around...hell this poor kid will be lucky to survive him now the way he jumps all over me!

 

[iluvmyfamily]

Yup my son was very jealous when my ten month old was just born. I honestl don't trust my son with my other kids because of his temper and behavior.

 

[mdjoy]

Yup my son was very jealous when my ten month old was just born. I honestl don't trust my son with my other kids because of his temper and behavior.

Lol..yea that's another thing that makes me nervous about him going. His dad has a few other kids...I'm afraid the older ones won't have patience as my son can get quite handsy. Kids tend to forget that the younger ones really still don't know better..ol, I forget myself a lot. Gotta keep reminding myself, he is not even 3 yet, he is not even 3 yet... breath in and out..lol

 

[iluvmyfamily]

Yup my son was very jealous when my ten month old was just born. I honestl don't trust my son with my other kids because of his temper and behavior.

Lol..yea that's another thing that makes me nervous about him going. His dad has a few other kids...I'm afraid the older ones won't have patience as my son can get quite handsy. Kids tend to forget that the younger ones really still don't know better..ol, I forget myself a lot. Gotta keep reminding myself, he is not even 3 yet, he is not even 3 yet... breath in and out..lol

Haha that's what I do too but it's so hard web u know they know it's wrong. My son will try doing something and then he'll look at me cuz he knows he's gonna get yelled at

 

[mdjoy]

Yup my son was very jealous when my ten month old was just born. I honestl don't trust my son with my other kids because of his temper and behavior.

Lol..yea that's another thing that makes me nervous about him going. His dad has a few other kids...I'm afraid the older ones won't have patience as my son can get quite handsy. Kids tend to forget that the younger ones really still don't know better..ol, I forget myself a lot. Gotta keep reminding myself, he is not even 3 yet, he is not even 3 yet... breath in and out..lol

Haha that's what I do too but it's so hard web u know they know it's wrong. My son will try doing something and then he'll look at me cuz he knows he's gonna get yelled at

Lol, yes he does that too. And worse is to have my older son and nephew..omg the things they teach him...nt to mention make him even rougher!