Hi I've not been on here lately. To cut a long storey short Dh and I have a 3 year old Dh, I've been keen for another for over a year be he is not keen
We came to an agreement that we would have another one in 2016 and I went back on the pill last year as a compromise.
But more recently we were talking about things and I mentioned that I wasn't happy on the pill (was lowering my libido) and he said he didn't like having the pressure of the ttc timeline. So we agreed that I would come off the pill and he would take care of things.
So I did but he hasn't been taking care of things. But not I'm confused as he's been so against having another so far.
I think maybe he's ok about it now that the pressure has been taken off. But part of me doesnt know. I don't want to bring it up incase it scares him again and this could be my only chance of having a second. I'm sure he knows I'm
Off it and I've even talked about when I was on it (past tense) since.
Any ideas what's going on? Do u think I should remind him I'm not on it ?
We came to an agreement that we would have another one in 2016 and I went back on the pill last year as a compromise.
But more recently we were talking about things and I mentioned that I wasn't happy on the pill (was lowering my libido) and he said he didn't like having the pressure of the ttc timeline. So we agreed that I would come off the pill and he would take care of things.
So I did but he hasn't been taking care of things. But not I'm confused as he's been so against having another so far.
I think maybe he's ok about it now that the pressure has been taken off. But part of me doesnt know. I don't want to bring it up incase it scares him again and this could be my only chance of having a second. I'm sure he knows I'm
Off it and I've even talked about when I was on it (past tense) since.
Any ideas what's going on? Do u think I should remind him I'm not on it ?