Hello! I’m writing because I need to talk to someone who has been through this as well. Three weeks ago we lost our beautiful baby boy due to unclear causes. I had a relatively easy pregnancy with no morning sickness and pretty active. At my 19 week ultrasound my cervix was 3.5cm and baby was doing great! Less than two weeks later I started getting low back pain and small cramps along with discharge. I figured discharge was normal until I saw a little red in it. I decided I would call my obs office to make an appointment once I left work. I started feeling dizzy as well. Once home I went to the bathroom and there was blood. I went to the hospital and was taken to labor and delivery which terrified me. Once there baby’s heart was fine and he was active as always. The doctor decided to do a pelvic exam and stated my cervix was completely effaced and 10cm silted with bulging membranes and there was nothing they could do as baby was not viable. I had to give birth to my beautiful baby knowing he would not survive. I am now so confused as to if it’s incompetent cervix, PTL or something else. Pathology reports seemed fine with the exception of chronic deciduitis which I’m not sure means anything!! Has anyone gone through this?? Have you had a successful pregnancy? What is chronic deciduitis?