Lost my Bean, need prayers

WishBean

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Hi...
Am here to just pour down my heart so, tat I can atleast feel lil good. Unlike many others I took BCP just for 7 months after marriage. After stopping them I had very irregular periods for 3 months - either long or very small cycles. But I was ovulating properly. Fourth month tat is this July 12th I had slight bleeding just for an hour and then it stopped. Next day I got +tive in HPT. I didnt know whether tat bleeding was implantation bleeding or my AF as I don knw my AF dates. I was very high like everybody. I was so happy tat my preggo happened at right time tat my due wud be in March 2012. - Its the time my parents had planned to visit me. (After 3 years, they are coming to US from my native India) After 10 days tats on July 22nd I was spotting a bit(very light brown) then its there whenever I wipe the whole day. I started worrying. Next day it increased a little more it was like pink blood. I rushed to hospital for ultrasound. They did vaginal u/s and doctor told me she cudnt see even sac in my uterus and stated tat am way too early to detect and I might be just 4 weeks pregnant (Maybe I might have conceived late, or due to very lengthy cycle) I came back home worrying and giving blood for tests. The same day I was bleeding normal red blood. The nurse cald me the next day n told me tat my progesterones are low - 4.2 and told me to take prometrium 200. But i knew it was already late as I was bleeding normal like AF. I just took one prometrium tab, then I started bleeding with heavy cramps n blood clots. All my happiness was over last friday. If everything had went well today was my doctor's visit for my bean's heartbeat. All in vain.. :(
I cried very badly and now out of tears. I just wanted to knw Y I lost my baby. Due to low progesterone?? Will I get pregnant with a healthy baby again?? Plz pray a sec for me to get preg as its my first pregnancy.

Thanks for reading my long rant..
 
:hugs: so sorry hun everything happens for a reason n i dont know why our precious ones were taken but they r the brightest stars in the sky each night, maybe get a keepsake to remind u of ur little lost one to always have to have need u big big :hugs:
 
I will send a prayer for your little bean .. sometimes there no definitive answer to "why" things like this happens ... If you know you didnt do anything to cause it .. then it just wasnt meant to happen at that time .. Sometimes God has a way of showing us that he is in control .. it could have been a blessing in disguise .. At least you know you can get pregnant ...

**hugs to you**
 
so sorry hun, You are in my thoughts ((HUGS))
 
Im soo sorry for all that you are going through.
On a good note...you have come to a wonderful forum...everyone here is very loving and beyond helpful! Lots of good info, friends, and support.
 
Hugs!! Hang in there. As far as your questions, yes..many women who have suffered a m/c go on to have a healthy pregnancy in the future. I know it's tough but don't give up. There's always hope!!
 
I am so sorry you had to go through that. :( I really don't understand why certain things happen either. Life just sucks sometimes. (((hugs)))
 
sorry for your loss...

If you have low progesterone, you'll need to let your OB dr know and s/he will provide you with progesterone meds. You willl always miscarry with low progesterone, so you'll need to take some meds to keep the pregnancy. It's good that you found out why you miscarried... Good Luck!!!
 

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