And I need help. Dont know where to turn. My mum was diagnosed in jan 09 - 2 days after I found out I was pregnant. She went through chemo and radiotherapy, and on the 12th Nov we were told the treatment hadnt worked and she only had 1-12mths left. 8 days later she was gone. I was with her for the final 12 hours of her life, held her hand whilst she went. My little girl slept through the night last night, from 10.30 til 7.30am. First time. I wanted to call my mum and tell her cos I was so happy. I cant cope. I´m not coping. I need help. Any advice? Please? Has anyone gone through anything similar and can offer advice/guidance/words of wisdom?