I am sooo sorry for your loss! I lost my grandma 9 yrs ago - and she was so much more than just my grandma, since she raised me from the time I was a newborn (both my parents were working). I was much much closer to her than to my parents...We knew for a few months that she was going to die, and those months were the worst months of my life by far (I was in the US already at the time, and only got to visit her once during those few months). Time is indeed a healer, but you will never forget. What helps me now is knowing that my grandma would be soooo proud of me and LO - and to think that she lives on through LO. Indeed, I often think that I am doing with him is what she must have been doing with me when I was an infant. And I am so grateful that I had her to raise me. Once the immediate grief subsides, you may find similar thoughts to comfort you.