lost sex drive

[wannabemumma]

hey ladies i feel really bad but my sex drive has left me, lol
i feel terrible for my partner he could do it 3 time a day.
i barly manage one a week
any one else feeling the same
thanks hunnis

 

[xtinydancerx]

I do, I'm 6 weeks, and every night I just feel gassy, bloated, and tired and have no desire for sex, I feel bad for my partner as well.

 

[DawnMN26]

Yes i am with you!
I lost mine too.
Once a week is our schedule too.
I feel bad too, but my back & cramps are always there & how can u want
to do anything when feeling crappy?

 

[nicetosmile]

Mine has been a bit like that too but it seems it's getting back on track. Sometime's quickies are good!

 

[destinyfaith]

i lost mine right through 1st tri, i havent got it back much to be honest we DTD about 4 times since ovulation and im nearly 6 months lmao !! x poor DF X

 

[Steph182]

me too

 

[natz123]

I just don't ever have the energy! Am tired as soon as I wake up! I barely have the energy right now to get up from the sofa and go to bed, let alone have sex when I am there. Poor men hey!

 

[DawnMN26]

What does DF mean?
Don't see that on the abbreviation list! haha

 

[Cloberella]

I'm exactly the same! Its like my body's saying 'no we dont need sex anymore thank you very much!'

I've been sort of forcing myself because my partner was upset and i missed the intimacy, and once we get going I usually get pretty into it, so maybe give it a go and see how you feel

 

[firstbabyOMG]

I have no interest in sex. I think we've DTD once since finding out we were pregnant. I just have no desire for it at all. Hubby doesn't seem too bothered by it, he hasn't pushed or even asked. But there are other ways to keep him satisfied, & I do what I can. He's seen how sick I've been, so he would rather I come to him when I'm ready to go anyway.

I keep seeing all these women who are raring to go when pregnant, I wonder if I'll get that next trimester.

 

[Naturalmystic]

I too lost my sex drive for the first two trimesters, sex was the furthest thing from my mind but I tried to satisfy my husband however I could. Things have improved a little and I cannot wait until I get my groove back. I really hope that I get it back because I can't live like this. lol

 

[dannyboygirl]

girl i slap some lube on and make him get me in the mood... i feel ya though....

 

[wannabemumma]

hey im sooo pleased im not alone.
its fusterating hey

 

[MissYorkshire]

hi just popped over from 3rd tri to see what your all talking about lol im nosey,
i have also lost my sex drive too and im 34weeks 2moz! i dont know whats happened to me cos i was sex mad before i got pregnant :S

 

[welshprincess]

i have gone the opposite way, i am like a sex crazed maniac. the more the better lol

 

[bluecathy1978]

I have lost any interest in sex too! I think for me it is a combination of things;

*Feeling so bloody tired all the time*
*Feeling sick all the time*
*Fear of another m/c*

I am hoping in a few weeks that I will feel better and hopefully will have a scan in a few weeks time. As soon as I know bubs is ok i'm getting back in the saddle

 

[crazy mummy]

I am so glad you feel the same we had sex once in early July and nothing since I am totally not interested my hubby says he has given up

 

[Gemie]

Yep mines totally gone I think it's the sore boobs and the constant nausea.. I mean who's gonna want a bit of hows your father feeling like that eh?
DF understands thank goodness... I just hope it returns when I'm feeling a bit better.
I had no sex drive while on the pill I came off it to get preggo and couldn't get enough and now it's gone again, I don't know whether I'm coming (excuse the pun) or going!

 

[Mea]

Glad i am not the only one, my sex drive seems to have vanished into thin air. We have not had sex since the end of June time, but DH is being really good i think he also worries abit that it might make something go wrong!!!!

 

[Danii]

Ditto! No desire for anything! Just got no energy, feel sicky, hopefully now my early preg sympt are starting die down a lil we will start to get back into it *Hopes* xxx