lots of advice please

[Showgirl22]

Well Im new to this.
me and my partner have decided we want to try for a baby. on monday 30th august, we had unprotected sex for the first time. and again last night (3rd sept). im the most impatient person ever and so i have done 3 tests already... i know its too early. all came back negative.
4 years ago i decided to have an abortion as i wasnt ready for children then. i dont know if that will have anything to do with any of this.
i dont normally track my periods.. they aren't particularly regular, i know that. i have SLIGHT underactive thyroid.. i found this out when i missed a whole period.
anyway, im really tired recently and im picking up every slight pain and researching it to see if there is any connection..

so do you suggest i wait for a missed period?? i know its not even been a week...
thanks girls

 

[blouseybrown]

I completely understand your impatience! I'm exactly the same. You'll most likely get a BFN if you test so soon, I would wait untill when you think your period is due and test again.
Wishing you lots of luck!
XX

 

[Kitten91]

heyya,

i understand you're impatience, but seriously don't worry from what i understand we can get to be really impatient about testing over pregnancy, and trying to get pregnant.
I remember a couple of months back being adamant that we had caught the sticky bean, anyway turned out i was wrong went through like 5 tests in 5 days....

don't worry just make sure you don't get you're hopes up.
x

 

[Showgirl22]

Hellooo.. so now its been 11 days since first unprotected sex.. i darent do a test.. i might do one tomora morning actually.. but if it comes back negative.. is that definate??

 

[Sevenladybugs]

Not definate at all. Implantation can happen up to 12 dpo! You're not out until AF shows

 

[Showgirl22]

i dont track my periods.. silly really.. but its never occured to me to bother. but i do know i should be due on around now.. however i havent exactly been stressing, just thinkin about stuff allllll the time. so maybe thats why its not shown up yet. i usually get sore boobs at first thats my first sign, but i havent, yet!! although i keep getting mild period-like pains in my lower abdomen... whats it all mean.
still negative.!