Wnt2beAMom
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Hey, So I was just reflecting a bit on my relationship with my husband and comparing it to my parents when I was growing up. I never saw them be intimate or hold hands, kiss, hug, nothing at home or in public. There was sometimes a foot rub my mom would get, but it was more like my dad getting a punishment..
My DH and I hug and kiss randomly just to bring each other into a better mood. Sometimes I don't care who is looking and sometimes I do.
I am just wondering if anyone has experienced a lack of intimacy since having kids or what your advice may be. Our parents are all divorced but they are all much more intimate with their new partners. So were my parents really not in love or was it just too hard on them raising kids together and now that their kids are grown up they can just enjoy their new partners?
I really want to keep my marriage happy and show my future kids what a good marriage looks like, and how important those vows are to us. There is way too much divorce in this world. Relationships take work, commitment, and respect to the other person.
What's your love story???
My DH and I hug and kiss randomly just to bring each other into a better mood. Sometimes I don't care who is looking and sometimes I do.
I am just wondering if anyone has experienced a lack of intimacy since having kids or what your advice may be. Our parents are all divorced but they are all much more intimate with their new partners. So were my parents really not in love or was it just too hard on them raising kids together and now that their kids are grown up they can just enjoy their new partners?
I really want to keep my marriage happy and show my future kids what a good marriage looks like, and how important those vows are to us. There is way too much divorce in this world. Relationships take work, commitment, and respect to the other person.
What's your love story???