Autumn leaves
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Little bit of background I'm 22 next month, partner is 24. Been together 5 years, lived together for 3. Both have good earning jobs, all degrees done with!
Always known we would like children early on, we want to ttc April next year, when we have moved to bigger house, possibly more toward mid summer. However if wedding before we would delay probably by 1.5 years.
We started saving a few months back in prep for bigger purchases and maternity leave.
Question is should we marry first? I don't mind either way but:
- I feel maybe we should before re money for wedding
- I feel Maybe we should after re child attending
What are your views? I don't really have a view regarding the order of life as such I just really mean in terms of above!
Always known we would like children early on, we want to ttc April next year, when we have moved to bigger house, possibly more toward mid summer. However if wedding before we would delay probably by 1.5 years.
We started saving a few months back in prep for bigger purchases and maternity leave.
Question is should we marry first? I don't mind either way but:
- I feel maybe we should before re money for wedding
- I feel Maybe we should after re child attending
What are your views? I don't really have a view regarding the order of life as such I just really mean in terms of above!