Aw sweetie....i didnt think i could go threw with Bodhis funeral. I dont know how,but i got the strength somewhere. Maybe it was my little Bodhi that gave me the strength. It will be the hardest thing,but you will get threw it sweetie. I will be thinking of you....
If u go or not doesn't mean you loved him anymore or any less, I think you should just see how you feel nearer the time, Im sure nobody expects you to go, its how YOU choose to deal with this thats important, it may bring you closure it might be too upsetting, you have to do whats right for you and of course for Aidan as he needs you so very much just now. Mason knows you love him whatever you decide to do honey xxx Big hugs xxx
aww im sorry to hear about ur loss hun, its the worst thing in the world aint it, ur so brave, i have had 12 week to prepare for this coz i lost him at 25 weeks i thought it wud get easier but is doesnt xx
Awwww hun, i cant begin to imgine how u feel. You just need to do what feels right. you dont HAVE to go to the funeral, nobody will think any less of you. I will be thinking of u and ur family hun
Emma Your little angel in heaven loves you no matter what. You say you've had weeks to deal with it but darling loss never goes away, you just learn to deal with it, to cope with it, and Mason has become such a huge integral part of you. You will carry him around always. No matter what you choose to do, he will always be looking down on you. Love always Dana xxx
I would remember all the joys Mason has brought you, how you carried him, how you fought for him, and let that guide you sweetheart. When you are there, think of how he's made you a stronger woman, and think of how he will always be with Aidan in whatever he does. xxx
Sweetie....you have been so brave and strong through your whole pregnancy,and your little angel will be looking down on you,he will give you the strenght you need. He is very proud of his strong and brave mummy,and so am i,you have done so well....
It will be one of the hardest days of your life hun, but you WILL get through it, and you will do him proud...its suprising where you get the strenght from when it comes to it. I think it also helps to say goodbye and bring some sort of 'closure' Sending you all lots of love xxxxx
you are so brave hunnie. thinking of you next friday, aidan will keep you strong and little mason will always be watching over both of you xxxx