May be to early to think about this

Discussion in 'Twins, Triplets & Multiples' started by Twin.Mommy, Dec 10, 2009.

  1. Twin.Mommy

    Twin.Mommy Well-Known Member

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    Im just wondering if anyone is affraid to have anymore kids after having multiples? I would like more kids someday in the future but after this terrible pregnancy and struggle with TTTS 16weeks of bedrest amnio-reductions and the pain from filling up with fluid plus the fear of loosing both babies or babies having servere health problems I just don't think I will ever beable to try again? On the 15th Im getting the Para Guard which is a 10 year birthcontrol.......... Im a single mommy right now my pregnancy was unplanned, failed birth control so there father is in there lives but not mine ..... I would like to think I will get married one day and what if he wants kids?? Im honestly terrified to get pregnant again my mother had fraternal twins and I had identical so I was told I do run a risk of having triplets and while triplets are a blessing I just don't think I could even handle another set of twins! I guess im writting this because I was wondering if this fear will go away in time? (wondering from maybe someone who exsperienced something similar)
     
  2. vineyard

    vineyard Mom of twin girls!

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    I'm mortified of getting pregnant again. I'm done. Love my girls but only wanted 2. So, I'm happy! :happydance:

    I'm getting the IUD in 2 weeks.
     
  3. memysonand3

    memysonand3 all done & loven my kids

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    im terrified and i wonder if one day i will want to have more i am also scared because of this being natural i am scared that i will have a higher chance of conciving multipuls again and like you i am having the paraguard put in once i have these little ones
     
  4. _Vicky_

    _Vicky_ Mum to twins

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    nope nope nope no more for me after this ever ever - tbh pregnancy isnt for me lol and I am nearly 37 so two is perfect. I am petrified at getting pregnant again though as we fell naturally with twins in the first month of trying although the pill had never failed me before but I am already stressing about what contraception to use after the boys arrive xxx
     
  5. ladypotter

    ladypotter Three Girls!!!

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    Thank goodness I had my daughter 7 years ago!! I'm done after these babies!!! I will be 35 next year and have had my fair share (and others fair share) of losses and fertility issues, so I DO NOT want to go through this again. I am Soooo excited to be having twins this time though!!! Thank you GOD!!!
     
  6. mrandmrspaddy

    mrandmrspaddy Pregnant with twins

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    I'm only 24 so I'd like to have at least 1 more after the twins. Don't think I would want multliples again though!
     
  7. vineyard

    vineyard Mom of twin girls!

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    Consider mirena instead of paraguard. Paraguard can make your period heavier. Mirena will make them really light or nonexistent.
     
  8. akcher

    akcher Mom to twins!

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    I'm done after these two. Got me a boy and a girl so couldn't have been more perfect. It was such a struggle getting these two!
     
  9. vineyard

    vineyard Mom of twin girls!

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    Sorta ironic what I had to go through to get mine as well but then I'm so concerned about going on birth control. Ha!
     
  10. Helen

    Helen ICSI Twins + miracle BFP

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    Tell me about it! We weren't going to have any more but then we were told that we couldn't possibly conceive naturally. Didn't bother with contraception. How wrong they were! :rofl:

    That said, Daniel is the absolute light of my life and I couldn't love him more. :cloud9:
     

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