May be to early to think about this

[Twin.Mommy]

Im just wondering if anyone is affraid to have anymore kids after having multiples? I would like more kids someday in the future but after this terrible pregnancy and struggle with TTTS 16weeks of bedrest amnio-reductions and the pain from filling up with fluid plus the fear of loosing both babies or babies having servere health problems I just don't think I will ever beable to try again? On the 15th Im getting the Para Guard which is a 10 year birthcontrol.......... Im a single mommy right now my pregnancy was unplanned, failed birth control so there father is in there lives but not mine ..... I would like to think I will get married one day and what if he wants kids?? Im honestly terrified to get pregnant again my mother had fraternal twins and I had identical so I was told I do run a risk of having triplets and while triplets are a blessing I just don't think I could even handle another set of twins! I guess im writting this because I was wondering if this fear will go away in time? (wondering from maybe someone who exsperienced something similar)

 

[vineyard]

I'm mortified of getting pregnant again. I'm done. Love my girls but only wanted 2. So, I'm happy!

I'm getting the IUD in 2 weeks.

 

[memysonand3]

im terrified and i wonder if one day i will want to have more i am also scared because of this being natural i am scared that i will have a higher chance of conciving multipuls again and like you i am having the paraguard put in once i have these little ones

 

[_Vicky_]

nope nope nope no more for me after this ever ever - tbh pregnancy isnt for me lol and I am nearly 37 so two is perfect. I am petrified at getting pregnant again though as we fell naturally with twins in the first month of trying although the pill had never failed me before but I am already stressing about what contraception to use after the boys arrive xxx

 

[ladypotter]

Thank goodness I had my daughter 7 years ago!! I'm done after these babies!!! I will be 35 next year and have had my fair share (and others fair share) of losses and fertility issues, so I DO NOT want to go through this again. I am Soooo excited to be having twins this time though!!! Thank you GOD!!!

 

[mrandmrspaddy]

I'm only 24 so I'd like to have at least 1 more after the twins. Don't think I would want multliples again though!

 

[vineyard]

im terrified and i wonder if one day i will want to have more i am also scared because of this being natural i am scared that i will have a higher chance of conciving multipuls again and like you i am having the paraguard put in once i have these little ones

Consider mirena instead of paraguard. Paraguard can make your period heavier. Mirena will make them really light or nonexistent.

 

[akcher]

I'm done after these two. Got me a boy and a girl so couldn't have been more perfect. It was such a struggle getting these two!

 

[vineyard]

I'm done after these two. Got me a boy and a girl so couldn't have been more perfect. It was such a struggle getting these two!

Sorta ironic what I had to go through to get mine as well but then I'm so concerned about going on birth control. Ha!

 

[Helen]

I'm done after these two. Got me a boy and a girl so couldn't have been more perfect. It was such a struggle getting these two!

Sorta ironic what I had to go through to get mine as well but then I'm so concerned about going on birth control. Ha!

Tell me about it! We weren't going to have any more but then we were told that we couldn't possibly conceive naturally. Didn't bother with contraception. How wrong they were!

That said, Daniel is the absolute light of my life and I couldn't love him more.