Me and OH broke up.

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  1. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    :cry:

    Well it's more like a trial separation :(

    He told me this morning that he misses his life before Ava and it's gone from there really.

    Told me he felt fucked over when I got pregnant and begrudges his responsibilities now. We were NTNP really, And he still feels bitter towards me about that.

    He's still living here, and were guna start fresh I think, go on dates and stuff again. We used to have the perfect relasionship, and since I got pregnant it hasn't been the same, so I do see where he's coming from... It just hurt that he's kept it from me for so long and I feel devastated for Ava :cry: x
     
  2. pansylove

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    Aww god hun *hugs* we will chat about it over coffee tomorrow :) I'm gonna Facebook you my number, give me a text to arrange stuff later on xxx
     
  3. amygwen

    amygwen Mom to Kenny & Gwendoline

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    Aww I'm sorry Steph, that's sad. I hope things turn around for you both. I hate to say it, but maybe it's for the best right now.. it is devastating. OH and I had a break and it was really difficult but we ended working things out. Hopefully it works for you both as well. :hugs:
     
  4. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    Cheers aymie I'll text you :) xx
     
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    Hope it all works out :hugs: xxxx
     
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    Big:hugs: I hope you can both work things out. It'l be lovely for you to go on dates etc again though and you can hopefully pick things back up from there x
     
  7. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    Yeah I hope so! It has been better tonight, we got a pizza and are watching a film and haven't argued at all :) I do think it will make things better giving eachother some space and I'm glad everything's in the open now. I just wish he'd have been honest, I mean he acted excited the whole pregnancy I just don't get it! X
     
  8. Sarah10

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    :hugs: i hope you are ok hun xxxxx
     
  9. rainbows_x

    rainbows_x Mummy.

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    :hugs: Hope things work out for you. xx
     
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    Aww, I hope everything works out :hugs: xxx
     
  11. lily123

    lily123 Mammy <3

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    :hugs: I'm so so sorry hun. How are you feeling now? I think facebook doesn't want us to be friends because I pmed you about a baby meet a few weeks ago but now I've just seen that it never sent :dohh: Let me know if you want to meet up :)
     
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    Hotbump SAHM, student, & wife :)

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    laura1991 Mummy to Lily

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    Hope your okay huni!!! you know where i am if you need a chat :) xx
     
  16. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    Yeah im ok about it thanks, it would be different if he actually left kwim?
    Oh really? yeah I want to meet Ivy! and you obviously :) Think we need to hit city farm soon xxx
     
  17. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    Cheers looove :flower: Do you have FB? x
     
  18. louandivy

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    Yess! Which one? I guess Windmill Hill Farm is closer to you? There is St Werburghs farm down the road from me but its pretty crap!
     
  19. stephx

    stephx Well-Known Member

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    Yeah the windmill hill one :D When you free? We should probally arrange this via PM we dont want any stalkers hijacking :haha: x
     

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