Me and FOB go to mediation Thursday. No idea what will happen, I know he wants overnights/weekends immediately and absolutely will not agree to that. I think he thinks he can try to get me to change last name too, but my lawyer told me that goes through district court so he'd have to do it separately...just going to get together my bare minimums for negotiating and see how it goes I guess. And my mom has recently decided to chat with FOB, since she visited me and the baby and was around him - he has charmed her to his side, she told me I needed to get over him dating other people and let him be a good dad...uh, he sees the baby WHENEVER he wants to and I don't say anything to him about how he's treated me. Also, its not that he dated other people (which absolutely did suck), but that he completely cut me and the pregnancy out when he did. I had to politely tell her to mind her own business today. Like that is what I need, my own family falling for his $%^$%#. I hope he doesn't meet a girlfriend and cut our son out like he did me while I was pregnant, but if he does and it is a big chance, my mom will see firsthand what kind of guy he really is. UGH.