Meltdown!!

[k7498632]

So this morning i had a meltdown!!

I realy meen it i was crying and shouting at DH and generally feeling like i was falling apart.

Im just so tired and getting scared about going through it all again that i think i just lost it for like and hour of crying and screaming.

Anyone else feeling abit overwhelmed?

 

[Leopard]

I randomly snapped when there was no milk the other night and punched my wedding dress of the hanger and broke the hanger xD.
Then I have random moments of yelling, crying and alround tantrums. Haha xD.

 

[creatingpeace]

On a weekly basis this has been happening in my house unfortunately! Many apologies have been given to be to OH afterwards! I am scared as I certainly do not ever want to be like this around bubs, but yet I am like this while he is developing inside of me

Hopefully you will feel better soon, don't be too hard on yourself.

 

[livebychance]

yes! i do, maybe not any involving screaming, but lots of crying and feeling lonely.

 

[booda]

I flung my laptop across the room on a few separate occasions.....ok, numerous occasions usually because something was just being awkward, like Iplayer skipping, the touchpad being slower than normal to respond, slow internet, forgotten to charge battery so comp turned itself off....yeah 3rd trimester caused uber frustration at everything/everyone for me :/ feel your pain/frustration ((hugs))

 

[vintage67]

Mine has been in the form of crying, and feeling sorry for myself, followed by incredible guilt for feeling sorry for myself, so more crying.

 

[holl1109]

I get like this prob once every 2 weeks. Hubby knows it's just the hormones but he still bloody argues back. xx

 

[franny_k]

Hubby knows it's just the hormones but he still bloody argues back. xx

Yes, my OH is the same. He's always telling me that he doesn't know how I do it, that I'm coping really well, that he'd really struggle if he was me and then when I'm a bit hormonal and just want to mope or bang pots he gets really annoyed with me and tells me that I'm treating him badly. I swear I'm going to record him telling me how brilliant I am and then play it to him when he moans.

I was totally hormonal 1st tri and early 2nd tri. I don't seem to be as bad now just tired and fed up. THere are days though when I just feel like I hate my OH. I know that I don't but he just winds me up!

 

[esmemuppet]

My husband calls these HFM...hormonal freakout moments!!! We just try to laugh about them now...I was never like this until the pas few weeks!

 

[hawalkden]

To be honest when I was at work and before finishing due to bleeding and stress at 24 weeks I came home crying every night, stressing at OH and one night I came home and just went to bed without saying hi, no food nothing he came upstairs all worried and I lashed out at him. He walked away till I calmed down and after about an hour of me crying and screaming I went downstairs and gave him a huge hug before explaining well trying to explain what I was feeling.

OH kind of understood and didn't feel mad or angry at me.

Since finishing work I've only had one outburst of tears and frustration that was because I'd run out of crumpets and it was about half 11. OH was in bed and I just didn't have the energy to go to the supermarket. It had to be there and then kind of thing. I just had to settle with toast due to my blood sugars being low and needing food but oh man I was hacked off!

OH was laughing in the morning when I told him but he understands! This is one thing I won't miss about the pregnancy hormones the random crying or outbursts. I honestly miss being in the 2nd trim when pregnancy was all nice, no sickness, tired, crying (unless a sad song, film programme etc!) or the random rages!

Now its back to the tiredness, hormones being sky high all the time and feeling more and more blah as the weeks drag on and you can't do anything!

 

[k7498632]

Thanks ladies xxx

Im not normally like this, i was abit emotional in the first tri but since then ive been ok.

I think its just coz the end is near that im getting freaked out about having to go through it all again.

Im thinking that maybe im coming down wih a cold too eather that or my eyes are still sore from all the crying i did this morning!! lol

 

[holl1109]

Hubby knows it's just the hormones but he still bloody argues back. xx

Yes, my OH is the same. He's always telling me that he doesn't know how I do it, that I'm coping really well, that he'd really struggle if he was me and then when I'm a bit hormonal and just want to mope or bang pots he gets really annoyed with me and tells me that I'm treating him badly. I swear I'm going to record him telling me how brilliant I am and then play it to him when he moans.

I was totally hormonal 1st tri and early 2nd tri. I don't seem to be as bad now just tired and fed up. THere are days though when I just feel like I hate my OH. I know that I don't but he just winds me up!

Ha ha sounds exactly like my dh. Not a bad idea recording it the next time they compliment us. We are all allowed off days, I mean Christ I would love to see a man do the whole pregnancy thing. X