I think this is one of the first times I've posted a rant about my husband but...ugh. Here goes. Apparently I smell different now that I'm pregnant. I have a LOT of discharge, I've had infections, and now it's summer and I'm hot as hell ladies! I shower every single day, wear lotion, etc, but apparently I still didn't smell great, and instead of JUST TELLING ME, my dh would reject any sexual advances I made towards him because he didn't want to ask me to spray some perfume or something. It's really sweet that he didn't want to hurt me, but I'm not sure why he thought that rejecting me all the time would hurt any less....he could have just told me? I tell him all the time to take showers and put on deodorant and to not breath on me if he hasn't brushed his teeth within the last hour...I've been spending the past few months wondering what's wrong with our marriage and if he's been cheating or looking at porn! I would much rather just have known. Anyway, I'm horribly, horribly embarrassed, and of course cried my eyes out and refused to go near him all day because I might have smelled bad. I just wish he had told me months ago! So embarrassing! P.S. He only finally told me this today after I suggested counseling because he was turning down sex so much!