OMG girls im sorry,but i just want to scream and break something! She is doing my bloody head in now!! After we lost Bodhi i started smoking again,bad i know but it was my vice. Now since being pregnant again i have stoped,but i have a puff of hubbys every now and again. I know its wrong,but i dont smoke at all in the day or in the evening. I have a puff after my dinner. So now ive got her speaching to me about it,now i dont mind,it does anoy and irritate me,but i just let it go. But now she has started asking my kids behind my back wether mummy is smoking. I mean for goodness sake why involve my kids. She asks me and i say no,i have a puff and neils once in a while! Why is she putting my kids on the spot!! As if thats not bad enough she now has starting saying i need to get out the house more and my kids are bored because we dont take them out enough. She says all these things to my children. Its driving me potty.Everything has to go her way. Hubby doesnt smoke at her house out of respect and we follow the rules when we stay at theirs. So why cant she pay me the same respect???? She treats me like im six for god sake. Sorry im just so annoyed right nw. I have enough to deal with,i dont need a meddling mil sticking her oar into every part of our family life and the way we do things. Sorry for the rant girls i feel better now. PS: I have done well with not smoking apart from the odd puff here and there but i dont get any credit for that! What i do is never good enough.