miscarried last nite

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by inked_mama, Jun 4, 2011.

  1. inked_mama

    inked_mama Well-Known Member

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    I had to go to the er last nite b/c I pretty much got my period. hormones were super low, cervix was still closed, but nothing showed up on the ultrasound. I was diagnosed with a 'threatened miscarriage'. since being sent home I have had huge blood clots make appearances. So i'm thinking it's safe to say I have lost my little one.

    I'm supposed to go back to the er on Sunday to have my hormones re-checked, but I don't even feel like going and having more tests done....

    I am feeling like a huge failure. I know I was only about 6/7 weeks along, but this sucks. I was so excited, and my husband was even more so.
     
  2. tina_h75

    tina_h75 mommy of 3

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  3. hellywelly

    hellywelly Mummy to Harry

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    so very sorry to hear this - I would advise you to go back to hospital - although I haven't mc i know that there are plenty that have and they have put that it is a must that you go back to hospital for more tests - just thinking of the health for you hun x once again, I am sorry for you and your hubby xx
     
  4. ebony2010

    ebony2010 Pregnant with #2

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    i'm so sorry for your loss. :hugs:

    I agree..... you should go and get checked out just to make sure everything has passed and you're ok phsyically. :hugs: x
     
  5. NuKe

    NuKe mummy to 2 gorgeous girls

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    im so sorry hun, ive been through pretty much the exact same thing this week. if u need to chat pm me :hugs:
     
  6. Stelly

    Stelly Guest

    I am so sorry for you and your family. Its a devastating loss.

    I too, just miscarried my first after a trip to the ER wednesday night from excessive bleeding. No words said have made a difference. Big hug to you. I know it sucks to have to go back in for blood testing etc, I have just wanted to curl up in bed with the curtains drawn and keep shut off from the world for a while... but for your own safety I really recommend going in.

    I am dealing with the failure thoughts as well. I feel like my body failed my baby. We were both so excited for this. Just know you are not alone- lots of love and support to be found here. Like Nuke said, there are others in same situation, feel free to PM me as well.
     
  7. embo216

    embo216 Mummy to 3 <3

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    Im so sorry for your loss :( :hugs: x
     
  8. Snowball

    Snowball Resident badass

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    I'm so sorry :hugs:
     
  9. xSamanthax

    xSamanthax DD1, DS1 and 1 Angel

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    So sorry for your loss :hugs:
     
  10. IHrtSteve

    IHrtSteve Mommy to 2, almost 3 boys

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    Keep up hope. U never know... Xo
     
  11. inked_mama

    inked_mama Well-Known Member

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    thank you all for your kind words and support. so sorry for all the losses, it really is a hard time.
     

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