I just want to share my emotions with someone and also hear what you think. Some background: Hubby and I married for just over 2 years. Hubby was living with his X-girlfriend (before we got married) for 8 years, and they have a son. His son is almost 5 (his birthday is in September). So far, the son was coming to see his daddy for 2 days a week (1 weekday and another day in the weekend). But recently they moved to a different country (since December 2010). I do not have any motherhood feelings for his son (I know some will judge me for it). I find (as hubby does as well) his son very active and loud boy. And I am terrified by the thought that my son will be the same. I do not like this type of personality at all. I know I will love my son no matter how he will be but I am ashamed of myself even to think about it. Should I feel that way? Is it stupid?