Hi Girls, AF got me this morning so I am on day 1 of month #4. I feel so helpless and sad by this whole process. I am only 24 and everyone told me oh its going to happen so fast for you. Well it hasnt. My husband constantly says its all I think and talk about but is not on board to me temping, or using OPKs. I think he feels like that will take the fun out of it. He doesnt want baby making to become a chore. Has anyone found that using these tools has made them feel more laid back? I am wondering if temping or using OPKs is going to make me feel empowered instead of just helpless.... I do track CM and I definitely got EWCM last month for 3 days. So I am really not sure how we werent successful. ugh I need to pick myself up again and get ready for this month.