MummyMummy
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i've posted several times about ex not being in babies life much and not making an effort no matter how many times i say/shout anything to/at him.
last night baby was in our bed and was yet again debating with himself 'i see my daddy nooo i see my daddy nooo' it's always the same thing he'll make a statement then say 'nooo' after it, always about his daddy. so today i phoned up health visitor just for a bit of info and she said she would send somebody out to talk to us because it is a bit of a concern. she said moving and the new baby could be causing him some anxietys too, but he never mentions new baby/moving house? just his daddy. he seems (most of the time, unless it re: sharing) happy enough about baby... so long as he/she turns out to be a girl not a boy rofl: don't know a solution to that though!!) but now i'm worrying that I have caused him so mental damage because I split up from his daddy because I wasn't happy and I was sick of his daddys lazy ways
not just that though but he is constantly active and never sits still and just runs around like a crazy child and is aaaalways chattering away (even his teachers sayhe's a right chatter box... and he's only been there around 2 weeks!!) and doesn't seem to wanna sit still unless it's bedtime (when he's tired) or a cartoon is on and even then he's always changing positions fidgety and they sound very much like adhd symptoms from what i've read, what makes me worry more so is that he's full of this never ending energy but doesn't seem to eat much, to justify all that extra energy! he doesn't often eat sugary foods/drinks, he does eat mc donalds abit but as far as fizzy drinks and sweets he hardly has them he actually asks for water! and i'm worrying that because when he was little my nan used to put tele on for him aaaalot and when i was preg with him i read that could be a factor in adhd so didn't want him watching it but nan just ignored me and told me that i was 'reading that computer rubbish too much' and from what i've read again it still says that watching tv young could be a contributing factor
anybody any advice re: the above? he's 3, dunno if that makes any difference to anything?
i'm 33weeks preg and so so stressed
xXx
last night baby was in our bed and was yet again debating with himself 'i see my daddy nooo i see my daddy nooo' it's always the same thing he'll make a statement then say 'nooo' after it, always about his daddy. so today i phoned up health visitor just for a bit of info and she said she would send somebody out to talk to us because it is a bit of a concern. she said moving and the new baby could be causing him some anxietys too, but he never mentions new baby/moving house? just his daddy. he seems (most of the time, unless it re: sharing) happy enough about baby... so long as he/she turns out to be a girl not a boy rofl: don't know a solution to that though!!) but now i'm worrying that I have caused him so mental damage because I split up from his daddy because I wasn't happy and I was sick of his daddys lazy ways
not just that though but he is constantly active and never sits still and just runs around like a crazy child and is aaaalways chattering away (even his teachers sayhe's a right chatter box... and he's only been there around 2 weeks!!) and doesn't seem to wanna sit still unless it's bedtime (when he's tired) or a cartoon is on and even then he's always changing positions fidgety and they sound very much like adhd symptoms from what i've read, what makes me worry more so is that he's full of this never ending energy but doesn't seem to eat much, to justify all that extra energy! he doesn't often eat sugary foods/drinks, he does eat mc donalds abit but as far as fizzy drinks and sweets he hardly has them he actually asks for water! and i'm worrying that because when he was little my nan used to put tele on for him aaaalot and when i was preg with him i read that could be a factor in adhd so didn't want him watching it but nan just ignored me and told me that i was 'reading that computer rubbish too much' and from what i've read again it still says that watching tv young could be a contributing factor
anybody any advice re: the above? he's 3, dunno if that makes any difference to anything?
i'm 33weeks preg and so so stressed
xXx