MummyMummy
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Wowsers, my friend's sis got preggo at 16. She was absolutely disgusted and kept getting upset for her sis cos she thought her sis had ruined her life. Now my friend is completely in love with her niece and wouldn't have it any other way! Both mum and little girl are doing fabulously and mum works at the nursery that her little girl attends. It isn't always doom and gloom!
i have no doubt that once this maybe baby is born i will be head overheels, it's just the thought of her being preg so young with no desire to do anything to better herself and what she is potentially missing out on, and worrying about what she'll do/where she'll live/how she'll afford things
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Sometimes things like this motivate people to change and get more from life. Encourage her to do the same - she CAN build a great life for herself and her baby if she wants. (Thats if the rumours are true!)
We only know what we read on here, so if you are worried, then she probably definately needs support from someone. If you don't think your mum can help then maybe she has a social worker you can contact?
to you, this isn't an easy situation to be in. We all want the best for the people we love.
oh good god. never again! ifyou read up iposted about her about to move in with us until i spoke to a connextions advisor about her (she was oding, seemed really depressed, never went out, had no friends and had something else going on in her life that was a huge concern) as i was scared, really scared and when a social worker came out to the house she refused to talk to them and had a proper go atme, same as mum did. think mum was only bothered as house is a complete mess and she has 6kids living in a 3bed house so think she was worried that socialservices would wisk all the kids away.kwim? she wasn't bothered about sisters problems on their own though.
i do want the best for her that's why i offeredfor her to live with us, so she could have support and help with school including getting to school (itwas still then a possibility of staying in/at education), so somebody could give her some attention and show an interest. so that she could have some kind of quiet stable home to live in, don't get much peace or space with 5other kids in a 3bed house as you can imagine!lol
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