Ok ladies, I'm new to this thing and need some advice - so if you read, pls reply. With my last AF, I just started keeping track of my cycles. That was 10/10/11. I don't know how long my cycles usually are since I never paid attention before now. Today is the evening of 11/16 and my bf and I made lovins a week after my last AF and on 11/1. Last week when I thought AF was coming, I had lots of thick almost yellow cm, but did not have an infection. On thurs or fri I swear I saw a little smear of blood on the tissue so I put a pad on. No AF just yellowish cm. Since then I've had period like cramps on/off but worse in the morning, cm that makes me think AF at first, stuffy nose/throat irritation (don't have much of a voice today), been tired, and my breasts have been a little sore past day or so. I took a pt on Tuesday and it was negative. This morning I was crampy and bloated thinking AF for sure but no dice. What do I do now? Wait some more since I don't know how long my cycles are? When should I take another pt? I have never cramped this many days in a row - its usually only day of AF and they feel just like that. Any advice would be great thanks!