My best friend is pregnant :(

[nicb26]

I told her we were ttc about 14 weeks ago, then, bam, suddenly she is 12 weeks pg! She told me yesterday, and she was sensitive about it as they were ntnp for 2 years before she conceived their first (this is their 2nd). I just can't help thinking WHY NOT ME???

 

[xMissxZoiex]

I know the feeling hun and so do alot of girls here its always hard when you get news of a pregnancy or a birth, Try not to take it personally which i know its hard because if it was the opposite way round im sure she would have felt hurt to.

I got news this morning that my cousin is now a daddy for the first time its really hard to look so pleased for someone when you feel so hurt inside.

Keep your chin up babe and have faith that it will happen for you and when it does it will be so magical.

Somedays the only thing that gets me through is the thought of one day having a baby of my in my arms.

xxxxxxxxx

 

[Serene123]

I feel your pain, my sister is pregnant for the second time since I started TTC. Hurts a bunch!!

 

[Janesworld]

I feel your pain too. My good friend (well, not so much anymore) already had her baby (#2), but she got pregnant like it was nothing! Then she SMOKED, like a third of a pack a day, up until the day she delivered. She is by no means capable of providing for the baby, and her husband just put on facebook that she hasn't seen her kids in a week. WHAT?! Those poor kids... how is it fair that a child can be born into a situation like that, yet each month I keep getting a

Sorry to turn this into my own rant!! Point being, that regardless of the situation, it really sucks to watch someone else become pregnant when you've been trying so hard.... and

 

[mom2twoboyz]

Truly Understand where you ladies are coming from We have secondary infertility and We have now been trying to conceive for 3 yrs ... My sil has had 2 babies in this time and 2 of my close friends have had babies .. In 3 yrs I have Never seen a BFP and I sometimes wonder why i keep doing this to myself .

 

[Feemee]

I understand too hun my sister is now on her third pregnancy since iv been trying. Really hurts xx xx

 

[Squeeker]

My best friend told me last week that she is 12 weeks pregnant. She and her SO have had fertility issues and had been trying for 3 years. Back when they started trying I was not even remotely interested in starting a family and she was telling me every single hormone reading on practically a daily basis. It was driving me bonkers because I really didn't want to know!!

Fast forward to 3 months ago and DH and I decide it's time for us to start thinking about it. I sort of unofficially, in my head, said to myself "won't my friend be surprised when I'm PG before her!" and then BAM! She's pregnant.

I was shocked, and to tell the truth I'm actually jealous.

I'm really, really stubborn so I am still pretending that I am completely uninterested... I'm such a hardhead!

 

[rosya]

i feel ur pain, i have been ttc for 9years

my sister and 2 of my friends and pregnant all having thier babies in Dec2010

 

[daisy31]

I feel the same.... A good friend (who is 43) started trying for her 1st as she was "too busy for children before" and got pregnant the first month...the baby was born a few days ago. Dreading going over to see them now.

 

[Mrs LB]

Really understand how you feel my cousin has just announced she's PG and only took 2 months, WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!