loola
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So, I told him pretty soon as we're a small company and we had a company party , for me not to drink would have been alien to him.
I'd said that I'd go back after 4 months part time - more as a gesture of goodwill and because I have worked with him for the last 4 years, so I have ultimate respect for him.
He didn't say too much at the start and then asked him I'd meet him in a local cafe for an 'off the record chat'. At this delightful 'chat', he told me that at 4 months, I coudn't come back to my job as it wasn't a part time role and that he needed to think ' what he could do with me' - I'm sure thats against Mat Leave law. I left the 'chat' pretty pi***d off. I couldn't believe that I'd worked for this man for 4 years, gone well out of my way for him and the company on uncountable occasions and he was treating me like this.
I let it be and carried on without a murmur. Ever since, he has spoken to me like I am abolsute s**t, he snaps at me for no reason and yes I'm emotional, but many times I have gotten off the phone to him and just sat at my desk and cried. He's vile, he shouts and then blames me for being emotional and pregnant. He even said jokingly ' theres no point in inviting you to the christmas party, you'll be fat, moaning that you're too hot and it's too loud and be boring. When people say things in a jokey manner 9/10 they bloody well mean it!
He was in the office yesterday and was talking to everyone normally if not over kindly, when I spoke with him, he practically barked at me on EVERY occasion. To the point of other collegues catching my eye and frowning as if to say 'wtf?!'.
I hate coming to work. It's so sad, as I have built myself here and never thought I would despise the place, but I do. I cry driving to work every day, I cant wait to leave at 5pm. If I didn't need the money , I would happily walk away from the place right now.
I have made the decision that today, I am going to email both MD's and inform them that I will be taking 10 months mat leave ( I will be financially better off on stat mat pay instead of the 2 days a week wage until the last unpaid month), I am going to see if things change. But I know it's not healthy for me let alone squidge to be this unhappy.
Sorry for the long rant. Am i just being an emotional mess or is he being plain mean?
I'd said that I'd go back after 4 months part time - more as a gesture of goodwill and because I have worked with him for the last 4 years, so I have ultimate respect for him.
He didn't say too much at the start and then asked him I'd meet him in a local cafe for an 'off the record chat'. At this delightful 'chat', he told me that at 4 months, I coudn't come back to my job as it wasn't a part time role and that he needed to think ' what he could do with me' - I'm sure thats against Mat Leave law. I left the 'chat' pretty pi***d off. I couldn't believe that I'd worked for this man for 4 years, gone well out of my way for him and the company on uncountable occasions and he was treating me like this.
I let it be and carried on without a murmur. Ever since, he has spoken to me like I am abolsute s**t, he snaps at me for no reason and yes I'm emotional, but many times I have gotten off the phone to him and just sat at my desk and cried. He's vile, he shouts and then blames me for being emotional and pregnant. He even said jokingly ' theres no point in inviting you to the christmas party, you'll be fat, moaning that you're too hot and it's too loud and be boring. When people say things in a jokey manner 9/10 they bloody well mean it!
He was in the office yesterday and was talking to everyone normally if not over kindly, when I spoke with him, he practically barked at me on EVERY occasion. To the point of other collegues catching my eye and frowning as if to say 'wtf?!'.
I hate coming to work. It's so sad, as I have built myself here and never thought I would despise the place, but I do. I cry driving to work every day, I cant wait to leave at 5pm. If I didn't need the money , I would happily walk away from the place right now.
I have made the decision that today, I am going to email both MD's and inform them that I will be taking 10 months mat leave ( I will be financially better off on stat mat pay instead of the 2 days a week wage until the last unpaid month), I am going to see if things change. But I know it's not healthy for me let alone squidge to be this unhappy.
Sorry for the long rant. Am i just being an emotional mess or is he being plain mean?