Okay so some of you may know i had my Gender Reveal party on Sunday. One of my close friends didnt turn up, and i text her asking where she was, she said she was really sorry but she was just too ill to come. And i thought nothing of it. Her boyfriend was there though, and he confessed to me that they had gotten pregnant about a month ago, but she had an A because she just wasnt ready to have a baby. I'm quite sensitive about A's because when me and my mum used to get into arguements when i was younger she'd throw, "i wish i had aborted you like your dad wanted me to!" into my face.. But i guess now im older, im more understanding that people may not be in the right place in their life to carry on with a pregnancy. Her boyfriend told me that she didnt want to come and be around all my baby celebrations. He made me promise not to tell her that i knew. I just feel really bad because its like she couldnt come to me and talk to me and i cant bring it up with her, i just want to be there for her when she needs to lean on me.