Sorry, so off topic but couldn't hold it. I haven't talked to her yet, our hubbies are best friends and they talk like girls every day, no probably worse than girls So apparently she got pregnant around the same time I did. I just can't hold it, so happy for her and that I am not alone Now I have a big issue: she doesn't share secrets easily. How do I get it out of her?? I know anyway but I was sworn not to say that I know I know that she is quite afraid because she's in her first trimester and she had miscarriages before and she's 39 and worried that anything can happen. BUT I so want to share this pregnancy with her! We usually go away on vacations and spend weekends together so she's pretty close.