my husband is a prick

[bababel]

You have every right to be upset. That kind of behaviour is uncalled for...especially from a grown man in front of his baby. It's wrong. Their brains are developing so quickly at this age and they are like sponges. You don't want her exposed to that kind of anger and verbal abuse.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope things calm down and he is reasonable. Stay strong and don't put up with it if it happens all the time. You and your baby deserve better.

 

[Jaylynne]

Ugh talk about an adult temper tantrum. He needs a time out.


I forget to wash my hands sometimes if I pee at home... It's sterile anyway...

 

[freedom08]

He is sitting in the sitting room now and me in the kitchen i couldn't care less. My LO is my life now. My OH is a very thick man and the slicts thing could annoy him. Suppose he had drink on him too which makes him 10 times as worse.

 

[numum]

ok I'm not sticking up for him but sometimes an unreasonable reaction comes from disappointment in oneself. as in what he is really angry about is the fact that he can't remember to wash his hands. i don't think that his behaviour was acceptable and definately needs to be dealt with but maybe a non confrontational approach would yield more results. (even though you have every right to be angry)

 

[freedom08]

Couldnt b arsed talking 2 him. Going 2 make bottle & off 2 bed

 

[Leids]

My first thought was 'wow he had a temper tantrum' too! I get on DH about washing his hands when he comes in from outside (he smokes outside, and I refuse to let him grab LO without waiting 15 min and washing his hands/changing his shirt).

I wash my hands after #2 (tmi sorry), but like jaylynne sometimes I forget after I pee. When he goes super fussbutt and I'm in a hurry I just don't always think about it. Sometimes I'll just grab a baby wipe and wipe my hands off quick.

 

[cmarie33]

My oh has temper tantrums too! To the extent that he threatens to leave, he got the shock of his life two weeks ago when I told him to do it then! I'd be angry too. Men often have tunnel vision xx

 

[staralfur]

My OH is being an incredible douchebag tonight, too. It's frustrating, isn't it? I think sometimes they really just fail to see how stressful our days can be and aren't careful not to add to it.

 

[freedom08]

Its not the point that he didn't wash his hands. its the temper tantum infront of our LO that got to me most. Never spoken to him last nite, and he didn't wake up this to say goodbye to LO that more of the bull shit i have to put up with

 

[babyjoy10]

sorry hun but he sounds like a right gob shite altogether