My mum is pregnant

[Shansam]

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[xSarahM]

I'd put LO's in the small room, you and your sister to have the same room, and then your mum and brother to room. Idk, when we were younger I used to share with my brother. For about 2 years. But that was. When I was like 4/5

Sorry. Congrats to your mum though! Where's her FOB?

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Oooh that's quite difficult as you have a brother and a sister, so a boy and girl can't really share, meaning inevitably your brother has to have his own bedroom?

If your brother and sister would be happy to share then I'd do it like this:

Your mum and her baby in one room
You and your baby is another room
Your brother and sister sharing in another room

??

xx

 

[Shansam]

I'd put LO's in the small room, you and your sister to have the same room, and then your mum and brother to room. Idk, when we were younger I used to share with my brother. For about 2 years. But that was. When I was like 4/5

Sorry. Congrats to your mum though! Where's her FOB?

She hasnt been with him long.. not even long enough for him to move in..plus me and him dont get a long.
But i guess shes having the baby now so nothing anyone can do.
Thanks for your advice though

 

[Shansam]

Oooh that's quite difficult as you have a brother and a sister, so a boy and girl can't really share, meaning inevitably your brother has to have his own bedroom?

If your brother and sister would be happy to share then I'd do it like this:

Your mum and her baby in one room
You and your baby is another room
Your brother and sister sharing in another room

??

xx

Yeah this is what i thought, and i would take the smallest room.
The problem is my sister isnt happy with this.. but i dont think its fair for me her and the baby to be cramped whilst he has his own room.. its not as if he is older than us .
If they has their own beds, they could get dressed in the bathroom

 

[Lexilove]

Congrats to your mom is there any way to section off one of the larger rooms like with curtains or shades? I'm not sure how small you mean by small I'd take the small room for you and LO since IMO I don't think it's fair for your sister to have to share with a newborn that isn't hers plus you and LO get a place to call your own. With your mom and her LO in one of the medium rooms and your brother and sister in the other but if you can I'd try to divide the room with hanging curtains or something so they each have their own space.

 

[Shansam]

Congrats to your mom is there any way to section off one of the larger rooms like with curtains or shades? I'm not sure how small you mean by small I'd take the small room for you and LO since IMO I don't think it's fair for your sister to have to share with a newborn that isn't hers plus you and LO get a place to call your own. With your mom and her LO in one of the medium rooms and your brother and sister in the other but if you can I'd try to divide the room with hanging curtains or something so they each have their own space.

Yeah i think its unair on my sister too.
What a great answer
Thankyou very much, ill tell my mum about this

 

[Lucy22]

Oh goodness, I have no idea how you guys will set that up

Congrats to your mom all the same, its kind of like my sister and Laney, my sister is a year younger than her

Hope things get better with her FOB xx

 

[20102001]

I think you, your mum and babies in one room ... eek!!

It's not fair to disturb/disrupt your brother and sister with the babies.

 

[AROluvsJMP]

I think you and your mom and the lo's share the biggest room then your sis and bro each get their own room! and tell your mummy congrats!

 

[charlotte88]

how old are your brother and sister?

There is rules and regulations about who can share and for how long etc regarding bedrooms, im not sure what the rules are exactly but im just googling so will get back to you once i have found out

xx

 

[charlotte88]

If either sibling is over the age of 10 or there is an age gap of greater then 5 years then they are not allowed to share a bedroom.

This only applies to siblings of the opposite sex

xx

 

[Chrissy7411]

I think, if the room is big enough, you, your mom and the LO's share a room. If not I think your brother and sister should share a room. As someone said you could put some kind of devider.

Are they're any bigger 3 bedrooms available? x

 

[GermanGirl]

oh ^^
great Situation

So Congrates to your mom



And what about moving?
Moving in a bigger flat?

 

[Shansam]

The house is really nice.
My mum wouldnt wanan give it up.
Theres no way me my mum nd 2 LO's cus share one room

Thanks girlies

 

[charlotte88]

The only real option you have is for your sister to share a room with you or your mum, because your brother has to be alone in a room!

Even with a divide its not classed as another room.

Hope you get it sorted. Maybe you could ring the council and see where you stand on things

x

 

[Burchy314]

If either sibling is over the age of 10 or there is an age gap of greater then 5 years then they are not allowed to share a bedroom.

This only applies to siblings of the opposite sex

xx

No one is going to check up on them to see if that's the case. I mean people share rooms all the time, think about families of like 6 kids with 3 bedrooms. You have to do what you have to do.

I think you should have your own room with LO. Your mom have a room with her LO and your brother and sister share.

If you own the house and not rent it, you could build a wall to divide one room into 2. When I was trying to figure out my house and where everyone would go we decided to build I small room downstairs just big enough for LO to have her own room.

Or maybe find a friend that would be willing to rent a place with you so that you don't have to feel cramped there. Also maybe by the time your LO is here you and your FOB will be fine and can get a place of your own.

I hope everything works out for you

 

[Chrissy7411]

The house is really nice.
My mum wouldnt wanan give it up.
Theres no way me my mum nd 2 LO's cus share one room

Thanks girlies

Then, I think your sister and brother should share a room and you and your mom have each of yalls own room with yalls LO's.

You never know, a lot could happen with time also. But I think that ^^^ is the best yall can do. I'm sure it will be fine, siblings have to share rooms all the time.

 

[Shansam]

If either sibling is over the age of 10 or there is an age gap of greater then 5 years then they are not allowed to share a bedroom.

This only applies to siblings of the opposite sex

xx

No one is going to check up on them to see if that's the case. I mean people share rooms all the time, think about families of like 6 kids with 3 bedrooms. You have to do what you have to do.

I think you should have your own room with LO. Your mom have a room with her LO and your brother and sister share.

If you own the house and not rent it, you could build a wall to divide one room into 2. When I was trying to figure out my house and where everyone would go we decided to build I small room downstairs just big enough for LO to have her own room.

Or maybe find a friend that would be willing to rent a place with you so that you don't have to feel cramped there. Also maybe by the time your LO is here you and your FOB will be fine and can get a place of your own.

I hope everything works out for you

I was thinking the same thing.. We shouldnt have to abide by the law for us to feel comfortable in our own house, i dont think anyone is going to tell the police about my little brother and sister sharing a room.

I think they should share to TBH, they will kick up a fuss though .
I am planning to move out when i finish college
Thanks for your advice


Thanks chrissy i think its the best we can do aswell.
Yep they sure do

 

[20102001]

Kick up a fuss? So would I at 15!!! lol
If my mum had told me I had to share a room with my brother I would pack my bags and leave hahaha
Would they be comfortable doing that?

Can you not get your own place ... ?