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My OH is ready.... but am i?

StarBright25

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we sadly said hello and goodbye to Harrison on 12th March and my husband is ready to start trying again. I know i'm not ready and it really sends fear straight through my body of the thought of trying again, i want another baby as i know i wasnt meant for just 1 child ( i have a healthy boy whos 2 and a half, so i know it is possible). but i'm so scared to take the plunge....

How did you find the strength? and i'm worried that the stress i'll be under through a pregnany wwill bring its own problems. . . . :cry:
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no right or wrong time to start trying--you'll know when you're ready again.

I wanted to try again right away as I knew the only thing that would make me feel a bit better was to be pregnant again. And as soon as I was pregnant, I was terrified of another miscarriage! Catch-22 :) And even though I worry every day, I am also filled with happiness over this new pregnancy and being grateful that everything is ok right now to help balance out the scared feelings. Its definitely a challenge.

Maybe NTNP would be a good way of easing back into it? Thats what my SIL has decided to do, kind of leave it up to the universe for now. Its helped her a lot emotionally. Either way, you'll know when the time is right.

good luck xo
 
after my 2nd loss I couldnt make the decision to try again.....we waited a while(18mths but that might not be the same for everyone) and then decided to let fate decide for us (NTNP)...

that was at the start of May and I must have fell quickly.....so my advice would be to wait until you are more ready to cope with the pregnancy as it is such an emotional time xxx
I gave myself some time to heal and I feel a bit stronger now than I did back then xxx

Good luck with whatever you decide xxxxx
 

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