Cassie_x
Will, Niall & Ali's Mummy
- Joined
- Sep 20, 2011
- Messages
- 81
- Reaction score
- 0
I turn 20 on October 4th, so technically I'm still a teen 
!! I thought I'd post my 'Introduction' here. My name is Cassandra (Cassie to everyone) and I only joined BnB this morning.
When I was 15 I met Ben, and we got together pretty quickly. I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant in June 2009, when I was 17. It's just my dad, and he wasn't particularly supportive, especially as he really did not like Ben. Ben and I moved in together, and I continued going to college.
haha! When I found out I was having twins
My friends weren't particularly supportive, so I ended up mainly being on my own. The only friends who really stuck with me was (believe it or not ladies!) boys! Matthew and Lewis, who I'd known since I was 12.
I turned 18 on October 4th 2008 and then on the 16th of December 2009, when they were 32wk + 3d William Hudson and Niall Ashton made it into the world. Ben and I were very proud parents of our gorgeous sons.
However, we didn't last and split up a month later because he'd found a new girl
. I didn't want to live in the house we had shared anymore, so I moved back in with my dad, but it was too cramped with me and the boys. My friend Lewis had just moved into a larger flat then my dad's, and he invited me to stay. He was so amazing with the boys, straight from day 1. I'm really clingy with my boys because they were so small and Ben walking out on us etc, but I felt it was OK to leave Lewis with the twins instead of my sister whilst I went to nurse school (I'm training to become a nurse).
One thing led to another *cough**cough* and Lewis & I became a couple around August 2010. And then, in October 2010, I found out I was 2 weeks pregnant. Our beautiful baby girl, Alianna, was born on her EDD 2nd June 2011. About a week after we were discharged from hospital, Lewis proposed and we're getting married on the 29th of April 2012. I can't wait!! He's my soulmate and I love him so, so much! Ahhhh! Yay! So that's it really I was just wondering, does the name Cassandra Kitchen sound silly? My sister said it sounds weird, but it's the name I'll be when I'm married.
Can I change my name to include the surname my sons have? They're Casey, so Cassandra Kitchen-Casey?! I want people to know we are related, so wdyt?? Thanks, Cassie x
!! I thought I'd post my 'Introduction' here. My name is Cassandra (Cassie to everyone) and I only joined BnB this morning.When I was 15 I met Ben, and we got together pretty quickly. I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant in June 2009, when I was 17. It's just my dad, and he wasn't particularly supportive, especially as he really did not like Ben. Ben and I moved in together, and I continued going to college.
haha! When I found out I was having twins
My friends weren't particularly supportive, so I ended up mainly being on my own. The only friends who really stuck with me was (believe it or not ladies!) boys! Matthew and Lewis, who I'd known since I was 12.I turned 18 on October 4th 2008 and then on the 16th of December 2009, when they were 32wk + 3d William Hudson and Niall Ashton made it into the world. Ben and I were very proud parents of our gorgeous sons.
However, we didn't last and split up a month later because he'd found a new girl
. I didn't want to live in the house we had shared anymore, so I moved back in with my dad, but it was too cramped with me and the boys. My friend Lewis had just moved into a larger flat then my dad's, and he invited me to stay. He was so amazing with the boys, straight from day 1. I'm really clingy with my boys because they were so small and Ben walking out on us etc, but I felt it was OK to leave Lewis with the twins instead of my sister whilst I went to nurse school (I'm training to become a nurse). One thing led to another *cough**cough* and Lewis & I became a couple around August 2010. And then, in October 2010, I found out I was 2 weeks pregnant. Our beautiful baby girl, Alianna, was born on her EDD 2nd June 2011. About a week after we were discharged from hospital, Lewis proposed and we're getting married on the 29th of April 2012. I can't wait!! He's my soulmate and I love him so, so much! Ahhhh! Yay! So that's it really I was just wondering, does the name Cassandra Kitchen sound silly? My sister said it sounds weird, but it's the name I'll be when I'm married.
Can I change my name to include the surname my sons have? They're Casey, so Cassandra Kitchen-Casey?! I want people to know we are related, so wdyt?? Thanks, Cassie x
xxx
)
I don't know if you can have your ex's surname, though. I think you'd have to talk to someone and see. They might let you since your boys have that surname so it's best to check.
Does Aidan see his dad regularly, and who does he identify as his dad? As Will & Niall see Lewis more then Ben, I'm sure they think Lewis is their father. It'll be a tough one to explain when they're older
I live in the UK by the way. I don't think we'll fight for full custody as he is a good dad, though Lewis is ten times better (in my opinion) & I know how much it would mean for him to say he's their dad, legally, but Ben would fight for him too. His new gf has a baby, a little bit younger than Ali. Two half-sisters & not even 2! Congrats on your little bub by the way!
its really hard on Colby....yeah Aiden has a half sister and will have a half brother all before he is 2 and then FOB jst found out he has got another girl pregnant 
Should be fine to change the surnames of your boys 
