Ok well I love the name, DH loves the name and its not going to change but.... my side of the family keep bitching about it.. my mum hates the name, its Iaean by the way ( pronounced yi-an) DH has a Welsh background Anyway mum keeps trying to get me to change it and making snide comments like .. are you STILL going with that... name and other things . My sister (8yold) said she didn't like it and its weird (wonder where she got / overheard those views from!) She and her friends had a bitch in fb about it, I said to her "if he gets to an age and does not like it he has two middle names to choose from' she keeps saying about school , friends , everyone not knowing how to pronounce his name. I know this but it only takes one.correction, she spelt my name different and I had to correct everyone but I didn't care It makes me feel like I'm being a bad parent and I should choose a different name. I know this is stupid but its niggling.. I'm not being a bad mum even before he is born am I?