Mrs Doddy
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I'm a bit worried about my little girl, she has been through a lot recently as the end of my pregnancy with her brother and birth/recovery was hard and she has been at home a lot and behaviour has suffered as a result, it's been hard for me too and I don't feel I've been a great mum to her, I'm desperately trying to make up for it now and trying to spend as much time with her as I can wen I'm not dealing with the baby
She doesn't seem to express her emotions and seems to keep it all bottled up and will not explain why she is upset - she is mote than capable of doing so, she got upset at nursery today when they tried to change trousers which got wet (water) she wouldn't tell them why. I told her to talk to me if she is upset and I will help her she told me that's what the teachers said to her too and then finally it came out why she was upset
I don't know if this is normal or the way she feels she needs to deal with things at the moment , how can I get her to open up a bit ?
She is playing up at bedtime too and I can't get out of her why - she wants me to stay wih her in her room- at 4.30 am this morning I actually had to get into bed with her, cuddling her to sleep (I don't know if that was the right thing to do)
She doesn't seem to express her emotions and seems to keep it all bottled up and will not explain why she is upset - she is mote than capable of doing so, she got upset at nursery today when they tried to change trousers which got wet (water) she wouldn't tell them why. I told her to talk to me if she is upset and I will help her she told me that's what the teachers said to her too and then finally it came out why she was upset
I don't know if this is normal or the way she feels she needs to deal with things at the moment , how can I get her to open up a bit ?
She is playing up at bedtime too and I can't get out of her why - she wants me to stay wih her in her room- at 4.30 am this morning I actually had to get into bed with her, cuddling her to sleep (I don't know if that was the right thing to do)