need advice they are sayin silent miscarriage

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  1. zoehamp

    zoehamp mutha of 2 and pregnant

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    hello ladies i had my scan 2day and i was supposed to be 12wks and 2 day preggers, but unfortently it only messured 9wks 2days and she couldnt find a heart beat, she did the tummy scan first then a internal 1 after but she couldnt find a heart beat. so the baby has been dead in me 3 weeks, has this happened to any of you but turned out ok. they have sent me home with it still in me i have to wait for appointment for d&c. many thanks. do you think i should ask for another scan just incase she was mistaken.
     
  2. NickyT75

    NickyT75 RIP Sophie my angel

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    So sorry hun I dont know what to say :hugs:

    Ther's not much chance she was mistaken - Im so sorry :hug: xx
     
  3. DolceBella

    DolceBella Mum of 2 Gingers!!

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    Oh Zoe... I'm so sorry!:hug:
     
  4. ajarvis

    ajarvis Well-Known Member

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    The chances they're wrong are probably low, but I'd still ask for one more just for ease of mind. So sorry :hugs:
     
  5. funkym

    funkym Well-Known Member

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    Hi hun, i'm so so sorry for your loss :hugs: The same thing happen to me in Nov, i was 8+3. I asked them for another scan but they said it wasnt needed, i ended up having an d&c. If you need a chat, feel free to pm me. Take care - thinking of you :hugs:
     
  6. jms895

    jms895 Well-Known Member

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    Hi hun, so sorry for your loss. There are some women on the miscarriage support forum who I am sure you can share your feelings with :hugs:
     
  7. Sovereign

    Sovereign Well-Known Member

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    So sorry x
     
  8. mummymadness

    mummymadness Mummy to 4

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    So very soory for your loss **HUGS** .
    You could ask for another scan hun , To make sure they got it right . But its doubtfull they have .
    Again iam very sorry . xx .
     
  9. charliesmom

    charliesmom Dad, daughter, 2 chis

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    Same thing happened at my 12 weeks scan. Mine only measured at 8 weeks though and they couldn't find the heartbeat. At first, I was in shock and didn't know what that meant... as in, do I go to my doctor's office now to get another scan or some medicine, what? It wasn't until my husband hugged me real tightly that I reazlied it's gone, done, over. Sorry it's not good news. Lots of hugs. :(

    By the way, I opted for the medicine instead of a DnC to avoid the risks of scarring, etc...
     
  10. Laura--x

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    so sorry for you loss hun x
     
  11. porkpie1981

    porkpie1981 Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: im so sorry. I went for my 1st scan and I had a blighted ovum. This means that the baby didnt form in the sac and my body was fooled by the sac into thinking i was stil pregnant. I was the worst shock of my life. I had a few more scans just to put my mind at rest incase my dates where wrong but i then got a D & C 3 weeks later.

    :hugs::hugs::hugs:
     
  12. **angel**

    **angel** Mummy to 2 little boys!

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    so sorry hun...this also happened to me but earlier on i was 9 weeks but baby stopped growing at 5 and they didnt think i was miscarrying and told me to come back in 2 weeks as baby would have a heartbeat then.....2 days later i m/c...... :hugs: :hugs: xxxxxxxxxx
     
  13. emzlouize

    emzlouize mum 2 Aidan & Angel Mason

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    im so sorry to hear this, take care xx
     
  14. wishing4ababy

    wishing4ababy mummy of 3 gorgeous LO's!

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    i am so sorry hun. xxxx
     
  15. wishes

    wishes Mummy of two :)

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    Im so sorry hun :hugs: What a horrible shock :cry:

    I begged for an extra scan before my d&c when i mc, but the hospital insisted it really wasnt needed... think its to stop us getting our hopes up.
    If you have any questions or wanna chat feel free to pm me hun. :hugs:
     
  16. passengerrach

    passengerrach mummy to kai

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    im so sorry hun
     
  17. scared1

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    Thinking of you angel x
     
  18. Twinkles

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    my heart goes out to you, im so sorry x
     
  19. zoehamp

    zoehamp mutha of 2 and pregnant

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    yer i woulda done the same but as baby is 9weeks 2days she said it is to big for me to have that done, things are movin along, by it self at moment. the are goin to book me in for d&c sumtime this week, but if it happens b4 they get me in, she said i ought to brace myself as i will see sumthin that resembles a seethrough jelly baby, and if the pain get to bad then i hav to go to hospital. thank you for you advice adies and thanks you for carin so much, it really helps to know. xxx
     
  20. esther

    esther Mum to Layla born June 09

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    Really sorry to hear about your loss x
     

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