Need to get this off my chest!

[Yazz_n_bump]

So had a really stressful week, I haven't stopped I am on my tenth day of working straight!
Was rushed to Maternity ward the other day due to bleeding, had to have a scan but saw bubs was hanging in there, thank god. Only thing that's gone right this week!
Everyone's found out about bubs, apart from MY family due to them stressing out in last pregerancy which then ended up in a MMC as they wanted me to have an abortion, I KNOW they will be the same this time round.
OH still can't find a bloody job, we are looking for a place to rent but it's so expensive I wanna give up and cry I don't feel like we'll be ready for March!
Had terrible crappy customers all week, one even shouted at me in the face (rude chavvy woman!!!)
Also seem to be getting so many more bills than anything else, Gr! Pissed off with everything

Want my OH to give me a hug! But he's in a bad place atm, owes people £400 so hes trying to sort that out,

 

[Lauraaraa]

i am feeling this way myself - baby is due in may which seems like a long time to get stuff sorted. money wise etc.

but i feel like i am doing alot of this on my own!!!

need to sit down with OH and sort out a saving plan of some sort as right now we dont have one!!!

anddd i have just moved from one end of the country to the other and gone from living with my parents to living on my own!!!!

so i am just getting my head around that - i pay all the bills and rent myself!! OH doesnt even OFFER to help!!!!

and he stays here on weekend! but me being the soft ass me doesnt ask! i will leave it and just see if he DOES offer!

if i didnt keep myself calm i could easily get very stressed

i am even considering selling my car - as i was thinking do we really need to - he has one so do i need one? i dont know i might seriously sell it, esp now. i dont know

x

 

[Yazz_n_bump]

i am feeling this way myself - baby is due in may which seems like a long time to get stuff sorted. money wise etc.

but i feel like i am doing alot of this on my own!!!

need to sit down with OH and sort out a saving plan of some sort as right now we dont have one!!!

anddd i have just moved from one end of the country to the other and gone from living with my parents to living on my own!!!!

so i am just getting my head around that - i pay all the bills and rent myself!! OH doesnt even OFFER to help!!!!

and he stays here on weekend! but me being the soft ass me doesnt ask! i will leave it and just see if he DOES offer!

if i didnt keep myself calm i could easily get very stressed

i am even considering selling my car - as i was thinking do we really need to - he has one so do i need one? i dont know i might seriously sell it, esp now. i dont know

x

Me & OH are making a saving plan, he is giving up smoking.
Thank god! Meaning 3 grand a year is saved.
Doesn't your OH live with you? If he doesn't live with you, you can't expect him to pay the bills lol, why don't you ask him to move in with you?
Aaah don't sell your car, you'll need it. I just got mine (OH doesn't have a license) when baby comes you'll regret it.

 

[Lamsbump]

Big hugs hun, youll get there.