calm81
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a pain in my butt.
I hope I don't get into any trouble posting a negative post, but I need to vent about my hubby.
My last pregnancy, my husbands' family were so "obsessively" involved with my pregnancy and my husband was on cloud 9. His family even went to my gender reveal ultrasound. My mom and his mom were playfully arguing over who was throwing the baby shower. SO much excitement surrounding that pregnancy. My husband wanted to go to every appointment and stared at the ultrasound photos constantly. Even though he was a Johnny Raincloud at the appointments--he was interested in the pregnancy.
Flash forward to this pregnancy.
We've known for about 5 weeks now that we're expecting and none of his family members seem to care, when we called to tell everyone, we got,"oh really that's nice." That was it. I haven't heard much since. That's all fine and dandy, my concern is my husband's lack of excitement--he wanted us to try for another baby!
He didn't come with me to my first appointment and that was fine with me, he didn't go to my 9 week scan that didn't bother me. The issue I have is that I texted him,"babe, they gave me a CD of the baby--we have a bunch of pictures." he replied,"Wow cool." He came home from work and didn't ask to see the pics. Later on in the evening he saw the CD on the kitchen counter and said,"Is this the CD from the doctor?" I said yes and he said."oh! Show me later,k?" with no excitement in his voice.
Hours later he never brought up the pictures. This morning he never brought up the pictures. I will not remind him again.
The pictures are so cute, baby has it's legs and hands and 167 heart beat. It's not just a bunch of cells anymore.
He's been like this since we found out I was pregnant. NO EXCITEMENT. I feel like this new baby is getting shafted because "it's" old news. Just considered "another baby." I'm the one that has to bring up the baby otherwise we would never speak about the fact I'M PREGNANT.
Maybe once my bump starts showing or the pictures show a bigger baby, but come on….we all know what the 9 week scan looks like (I'm assuming we all know…sorry) and know seeing the pics are worth it.
Thanks for the vent.
I hope I don't get into any trouble posting a negative post, but I need to vent about my hubby.
My last pregnancy, my husbands' family were so "obsessively" involved with my pregnancy and my husband was on cloud 9. His family even went to my gender reveal ultrasound. My mom and his mom were playfully arguing over who was throwing the baby shower. SO much excitement surrounding that pregnancy. My husband wanted to go to every appointment and stared at the ultrasound photos constantly. Even though he was a Johnny Raincloud at the appointments--he was interested in the pregnancy.
Flash forward to this pregnancy.
We've known for about 5 weeks now that we're expecting and none of his family members seem to care, when we called to tell everyone, we got,"oh really that's nice." That was it. I haven't heard much since. That's all fine and dandy, my concern is my husband's lack of excitement--he wanted us to try for another baby!
He didn't come with me to my first appointment and that was fine with me, he didn't go to my 9 week scan that didn't bother me. The issue I have is that I texted him,"babe, they gave me a CD of the baby--we have a bunch of pictures." he replied,"Wow cool." He came home from work and didn't ask to see the pics. Later on in the evening he saw the CD on the kitchen counter and said,"Is this the CD from the doctor?" I said yes and he said."oh! Show me later,k?" with no excitement in his voice.
Hours later he never brought up the pictures. This morning he never brought up the pictures. I will not remind him again.
The pictures are so cute, baby has it's legs and hands and 167 heart beat. It's not just a bunch of cells anymore.
He's been like this since we found out I was pregnant. NO EXCITEMENT. I feel like this new baby is getting shafted because "it's" old news. Just considered "another baby." I'm the one that has to bring up the baby otherwise we would never speak about the fact I'M PREGNANT.
Maybe once my bump starts showing or the pictures show a bigger baby, but come on….we all know what the 9 week scan looks like (I'm assuming we all know…sorry) and know seeing the pics are worth it.
Thanks for the vent.