I am technically in my second tri now as ticker is a few days behind.
I was really ill during first tri and couldn;t do anything. Going to the shop was a chore so hubby really had to look after himself and I did feel guilty. I have been out of that phase for a week or so now and feeling loads better but tired as went back to work a couple of weeks ago. Anyway on a normal night I go to bed about 8pm ish - sometimes I watch tv but i usually do drop off before 9.
It was my sister;s hen do on sat and it was a spa day so I left at 930 on sat and told hubby I'd be back at 11ish on sun. Well as my mum was my lift we left a little after 11 so got back at quarter to 12. Hubby went off on one about how I'd stay up late for the hen do but I won;t make the effort for him and that as I was home later than I said we couldn;t do anything that day now. It really upset me as i'm trying to keep my head above water in terms of work. it took all of my effort to stay up till 1130 for my sister but it was her hen do and I was determined to not let anything spoil it. I told him that if he took me out then maybe I'd stay up a bit later. He has since apologised and has just said he's feeling a bit neglected. Has anybody else got hubbys feeling like this? It annoyed me as I cooked him a spag bol on fri - in addition to our tea so he;d have tea on sat and I booked us in at the spa for the day in a few weeks as he is very stressed and thought he'd enjoy the chance to relax. I know I've been pretty bad in first few weeks but I just wish he'd man up a bit. I'm trying not to neglect him but at the same time I feel yet again everybody is so concerned with themselves....work don;t seem to care, baby obivously is taking my nutrients and making me tired(but I'll let baby off
) and hubby is feeling neglected. Who is concerning themselves with worrying about if I am ok????
I was really ill during first tri and couldn;t do anything. Going to the shop was a chore so hubby really had to look after himself and I did feel guilty. I have been out of that phase for a week or so now and feeling loads better but tired as went back to work a couple of weeks ago. Anyway on a normal night I go to bed about 8pm ish - sometimes I watch tv but i usually do drop off before 9.
It was my sister;s hen do on sat and it was a spa day so I left at 930 on sat and told hubby I'd be back at 11ish on sun. Well as my mum was my lift we left a little after 11 so got back at quarter to 12. Hubby went off on one about how I'd stay up late for the hen do but I won;t make the effort for him and that as I was home later than I said we couldn;t do anything that day now. It really upset me as i'm trying to keep my head above water in terms of work. it took all of my effort to stay up till 1130 for my sister but it was her hen do and I was determined to not let anything spoil it. I told him that if he took me out then maybe I'd stay up a bit later. He has since apologised and has just said he's feeling a bit neglected. Has anybody else got hubbys feeling like this? It annoyed me as I cooked him a spag bol on fri - in addition to our tea so he;d have tea on sat and I booked us in at the spa for the day in a few weeks as he is very stressed and thought he'd enjoy the chance to relax. I know I've been pretty bad in first few weeks but I just wish he'd man up a bit. I'm trying not to neglect him but at the same time I feel yet again everybody is so concerned with themselves....work don;t seem to care, baby obivously is taking my nutrients and making me tired(but I'll let baby off
) and hubby is feeling neglected. Who is concerning themselves with worrying about if I am ok????
