It baffles me that someone would think it acceptable to publicly give a negative reaction to someone else's pregnancy.
I'm not angry. This person has a personal history that, in a way, justifies her feelings but not her actions.
I officially announced on Facebook yesterday. Something simple... just posted the ultrasound pic as my profile pic. I know quite a few people who are incapable of having children or are having trouble so I really didn't want to do anything elaborate to respect their difficulties. But still wanted to let friends afar know that I'm pregnant.
This particular friend didn't comment or send me a private message but instead posted a public post saying how terrible I was to do such a thing.... how inconsiderate it was... and that she was going to unfollow me. Well... she didn't think it through because of course I saw it since I still follow her. I sent her a private message. In short telling her I didn't do it to harm her personally and that I am empathetic to her situation, but that her actions were baffling to me. I wouldn't apologize for something good happening in my life.
As I said, I'm not mad or upset. Just baffled.
Anyone else have negative reactions from their announcements?
I'm not angry. This person has a personal history that, in a way, justifies her feelings but not her actions.
I officially announced on Facebook yesterday. Something simple... just posted the ultrasound pic as my profile pic. I know quite a few people who are incapable of having children or are having trouble so I really didn't want to do anything elaborate to respect their difficulties. But still wanted to let friends afar know that I'm pregnant.
This particular friend didn't comment or send me a private message but instead posted a public post saying how terrible I was to do such a thing.... how inconsiderate it was... and that she was going to unfollow me. Well... she didn't think it through because of course I saw it since I still follow her. I sent her a private message. In short telling her I didn't do it to harm her personally and that I am empathetic to her situation, but that her actions were baffling to me. I wouldn't apologize for something good happening in my life.
As I said, I'm not mad or upset. Just baffled.
Anyone else have negative reactions from their announcements?