Nervous about tomorrow

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  1. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    Hi everyone
    When i went for my 12 week scan, the sonographer told me there was quite a large amount of fluid below the head but it hadnt gone in the brain the fluid measured 7.5.
    I did the test for down syndrome and i had good results of 1 in 75. and they confirmed 98 percent the baby is healthy.
    They want me to go for a 14th week scan tomorrow. and on the 14th feb im havin a fetal heart scan, ive been feelin quite healthy.
    But after having the scare on the 12 week scan im terrified about tomorrow
    it has taken me almost 6years to concieve.

    i shldnt think the worse.the baby was healthy and all the chromes r there .
    x
     
  2. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    its onbly natural to feel that way..
    i had a high risk score for ds on my last pregnancy worrying and i had lots of scans and his heart was fine so i didnt have amnio as of the risk of mc and hey i now have a healthy baby boy..
    i know how you feel hun but be nice to yourself as i beat myself up about it so much and its not good for you or baby..
    xx
     
  3. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    thank u so much hun i m so scared i love this baby so much more than anything else in the world. im glad u had a healthy baby boy xx
     
  4. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    yes you love them right from the start and everything will be fine tomos im sure..
    gosh i so know what you are feeling at the min, and i wouldnt want to wish those feelings on anyone..
    put your feet up or have a relaxing bath and be nice and calm for your scan tomos..
    i will think of u..
    please let me know hun
    emma xx
     
  5. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    i will hun, my scan is at 8.50 in the morning, i know i wont sleep 2night .. i hope my baby is ok x
     
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    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    hun i hope so too and i really think it will be..
    so glad its early morning as if u anything like me then i would be climbing the walls if it was pm..
    take care
    i have everything crossed for you...
    xx
     
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    Brieanna Well-Known Member

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    Didn't want to read and run. Try and think positive and 98 percent is a large number. I hope all goes well at the scan. :)
     
  8. farahrita81

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    thank u emz i wont sleep 2night... when i had my scan i had to have a 2nd one in the afternoon cuz the woman was so mean in the morning and told me to terminate my oh told her to do one and we saw specialits
     
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    thanks brieanna,, xx
     
  10. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    no way hun thats so damn awfull
    what a bi**h cant believe that..
    some dont have any empathy at all..
    feel free to pm anytime hun
    emma xx
     
  11. farahrita81

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    i will thank you. yeah the other hospital complained about her. the one i wnt to in ther afternoon was so much nicer :) and told me that the baby has a healthy chance in life :) then when i recieved my results of downs i was quite happy 98 per cent healthy babba is excellnt :)
    my friend told me to join this website as she said its a good way of talking to people
     
  12. baileykenz

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    it is hun and if you read my profile i started the day i had all my worry..it helped me on here..
    i am here for u
    98% is great
     
  13. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    i will i just sawsome of the thread r u ok ? x
     
  14. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    i am just sick of the waiting hun..
    still no loss has started as yet..
    thinking of u this morn
     
  15. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    Hi emma,
    Ill keep u in my prayers :)
    i went to hospital. and the fluid hasnt got worse she did say there is a small amount of fluid in the lung, on the right side, but sometimes that goes with tablets
    baby was upside down lol. i smiled :) things r looking well .
    hope ur ok been thinking of u xx
     
  16. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    hi hun
    thank god babes ok been worrying all day..
    i am ok still waiting for the loss..
    i bet you feel much better now..
    emmxx
     
  17. farahrita81

    farahrita81 Well-Known Member

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    aww thanks emma, im praying for u hun. r u on facebook? i am but have privacy settings but i cld find u. xxx whats happening, i feel so bad for u xx
     
  18. baileykenz

    baileykenz Well-Known Member

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    no fb hun i would never get things done if i was lol..
    no change chick still bloody waiting not even a spot of loss..
    hows u today?
    emmaxx
     

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