new and scared

Discussion in 'Teen Pregnancy' started by kirsty18, Apr 9, 2009.

  1. kirsty18

    kirsty18 New Member

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    Hey my name is kirsty am 18yrs old, am expecting my first baby in 18 days and now am getting scared. My OH is so caring but we dnt live together and am scared a go into labour alone.

    a would love some1 to write back x
     
  2. NotSoWorried

    NotSoWorried Well-Known Member

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    Hiya Kirsty, welcome to BnB!

    It's natural to worry about that, can't your OH come and stay with your whilst you're due? x
     
  3. Maybe baby

    Maybe baby Well-Known Member

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    welcome...is there any way ure OH could stay with you during your final week?
     
  4. kellysays2u

    kellysays2u Guest

    Hey hun. First off congratulations. Its completely natural to be scared. I was due yesterday and my induction date is set for the 17th of april. As soon as I got that date I was like OH CRAP!!!!!!!! I do however live with my OH but he is almost never home so I am pretty sure I will be alone when I first start going into labor. Theres an april mummies thread in the third tri section if you want to come join us all. There are quite a few young mummies in there too and we talk about anything you could possibly imagine. You should pop in and say hello!
     
  5. kirsty18

    kirsty18 New Member

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    he could bt he won't be able to get to work and he can't get any time off until the baby is here. a hav my mum bit a reli just want my OH to be there. bt my mum works til 5 so am in the house all day myself
     
  6. NotSoWorried

    NotSoWorried Well-Known Member

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    How about inviting friends over? Keep you company too.
     
  7. kirsty18

    kirsty18 New Member

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    Yea a could do tht. A jst want to hav it ova and done with am so tired bt a can't sleep cause it kicks alll night n day n causes me pain in ma side. am jst fed up now
     
  8. staceymy

    staceymy Mummy To Two Princesses

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    Hi & welcome!! Its totally normal to worry. Im sure everything will be fine & go well.
     
  9. nikky0907

    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    Hey, welcome to BnB!

    It's normal to feel tired and sick of being pregnant in those last few weeks :hugs:
     
  10. Ravelyn

    Ravelyn Well-Known Member

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    I'm 35 yrs old sweetie and pregnant with my first. My husband and mother (if mother doesn't make it in time best friend) will be with me... and I'm still scared to death of all the unknown things that are going to happen when I go into labour.
    So many questions that can only be answered on that day.

    It is a completely normal feeling. Maybe you should talk to your mom and see if she will allow your OH to come stay with you in your final days. Tell her your fears. She might be understanding and allow him to stay with you.

    Good luck sweetie...
     
  11. Jemma_x

    Jemma_x Mummy and Engaged

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    I was in same position, me and my oh dont live together and i was so scared about going into labour and not being able to get hold of him and him not being there because he works as a bus driver it so hard to get hold of him but luckily ive been booked in for a csection so aslong as i dont go into labour before my oh will be there which has been a worry of my mind. As people have said you could always invite friends over or is there another family members were you could go so your not alone??
     

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