Hey everyone, I've been looking at this site for a while now but haven't ever got around to introducing myself. I've mainly been using it for advice as I just kinda presumed I would get pregnant within a couple of months.... little did I know about it! My hubby and I are now in our 4th month of trying and I was convinced this would be the month as it's my first month of using OPK's so I knew I'd timed it exact. However my AF is due on Saturday/Sunday and I've started getting cramps today I took a first response test last night and it was BFN - I feel really dis-heartened now as I was so convinced this was gonna be our month. How do you all stay positive? Every time I get my AF I feel like crying and I'm starting to convince myself that something is wrong. I know 4 months doesn't sound like a long time but everyone around us seems to be getting pregnant without even trying!