Yip, I'm from Durban but been living in the UK for 3 years now.. Ladies I know this might sound so obvious but I didnt have a clue until someone told me that yiu shouldn't use the 'PLAY' lube as it can kill spermies. So, when we stopped using that, babba came along.. Just thought I would throw it out there although you prob all knw as much and I was just being a dumb blonde hee hee hee.. Also, we bd'd once every 2 days from the day AF stopped until about 5 days before Af due again-and got BFP.. The month before, we BD'd everyday 3 days before and 4 days after ovulating and got a BFN-so maybe worth trying the every other day thing. Just throwing it out there.. I so want you to all get BFP's !!!!!!