Hi Ladies! Back story: DH and I had a little slip up last month RIGHT before I ovulated (I was temping, first cycle off of bcp in preparation to TTC in a few months). When AF came, both of us were sad about it. Within 5 minutes of me telling him I'd started, he suggested that we NTNP. I said yes as soon as I realized he was serious! Anyhow, in this whole exchange he asked to just take a step back completely and let nature take it's course - which I love the idea of BUT I have crazy cycles still so I'm not sure if/when I'm going to ovulate, which means I won't have a real clue as to when AF is due. So how do you guys deal with it? I mean I KNOW that I'm going to keep an eye on CM, but that doesn't guarantee that ovulation has actually happened so I can time my periods. I think I might just randomly take my for a few days in a row once I hit CD14-16, then again around CD 24-25, maybe? Ugh I don't know! I'm open to any suggestions with how you cope, etc.!