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saara24
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Hi all
I posted a few weeks back but only one or two people responded I'm not sure if it was because no-one could help, but I thought I'd try again.
Last time, I was panicking about work - we run our own business (shop & website) and I was sure I wouldn't be able to take time off either during pregnancy or after the birth, basically home from hospital and back to the computer...
Since then I've been thinking about it, and it'll be a major upheaval to the way I work but I think once I've re-organised all my stock and stuff I might be able to hand most of it over to someone else - my sis-in-law-to-be is not working at the moment so she could come in and train to help me with work before baby and then either help with work afterwards, or help with baby while I work.
So now I'm just plain petrified because it suddenly seems so much more real LOL. My IUD is due out in January after 5 years, but thinking about it it would make more sense to get it out October/November time - December -February would be ideal conceiving time as Christmas is really really busy for us (retail LOL!) and then up til March is very quiet so I would have some time to get used to the idea - then hopefully baba would be out by next Christmas and I might be able to muck in with the business again a little bit more than I would be able to heavily pregnant.
Anyways. All this is just speculation and my nervous rambling. I'm scared of the whole thing - being sick is a real phobia so I don't know how I'd get over that one - I'm the least maternal person you'll ever meet, so I don't know what I'll do with a baby when it arrives LOL - please tell me all these things just sort of fix themselves somewhere along the line!
I'm not even sure why I decided now would be a good time - the more I think about it, I should be putting it off for a few years still - but for some reason I don't want to.
Lovely hubby-to-be is being far too relaxed about it all LOL - whenever I want, he says he's good to go as he has no more things left that he wants to do before babies come along.
I have half a dozen things I still want to do LOL, but they can all be accomplished in a fortnight if need be.
Right. I shall stop now before I write War & Peace. Any input at all is appreciated.
I posted a few weeks back but only one or two people responded I'm not sure if it was because no-one could help, but I thought I'd try again.
Last time, I was panicking about work - we run our own business (shop & website) and I was sure I wouldn't be able to take time off either during pregnancy or after the birth, basically home from hospital and back to the computer...
Since then I've been thinking about it, and it'll be a major upheaval to the way I work but I think once I've re-organised all my stock and stuff I might be able to hand most of it over to someone else - my sis-in-law-to-be is not working at the moment so she could come in and train to help me with work before baby and then either help with work afterwards, or help with baby while I work.
So now I'm just plain petrified because it suddenly seems so much more real LOL. My IUD is due out in January after 5 years, but thinking about it it would make more sense to get it out October/November time - December -February would be ideal conceiving time as Christmas is really really busy for us (retail LOL!) and then up til March is very quiet so I would have some time to get used to the idea - then hopefully baba would be out by next Christmas and I might be able to muck in with the business again a little bit more than I would be able to heavily pregnant.
Anyways. All this is just speculation and my nervous rambling. I'm scared of the whole thing - being sick is a real phobia so I don't know how I'd get over that one - I'm the least maternal person you'll ever meet, so I don't know what I'll do with a baby when it arrives LOL - please tell me all these things just sort of fix themselves somewhere along the line!
I'm not even sure why I decided now would be a good time - the more I think about it, I should be putting it off for a few years still - but for some reason I don't want to.
Lovely hubby-to-be is being far too relaxed about it all LOL - whenever I want, he says he's good to go as he has no more things left that he wants to do before babies come along.
I have half a dozen things I still want to do LOL, but they can all be accomplished in a fortnight if need be.
Right. I shall stop now before I write War & Peace. Any input at all is appreciated.