New to TTC and already feeling lost! Please help...

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by FunkyClaire, Apr 18, 2009.

  1. FunkyClaire

    FunkyClaire Well-Known Member

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    Hi ladies, I hope some of you can help me because I am *so* confused already.
    This is our 1st month of TTC, I've never really kept track of my cyles before but I think they've been roughly 30 days... last 2 months were 31 and 35 days.
    So already I wasn't totally sure when I would ovulate.
    I had what I'm pretty sure was a positive OPK on day 13 which I thought was a bit early but not sure? Made sure we had :sex: most days around this time anyway!
    But, I don't seem to have any CM. Like... almost nothing. And I don't see a temp spike. So is it likely I haven't ovulated yet? Could it still happen or is that me out this month now?
    I'm trying to think if I normally get much in the way of CM and I know I do get it but can't think how much/often as never paid attention before!

    Argh I just feel like it's cycle 1 and I'm already 'failing'! :cry:

    Oops, sorry for the rant for my 1st post - I'm looking forward to joining in here with you all!
     
  2. JemmaD

    JemmaD 3rd trimester

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    Hi and welcome everyone is so nice on here!! im waiting on AF today and if she shows next cycle will be may first cycle that i will be doing it all right so im right with you in not really knowing things, i hope it is the month for you with my 1st month trying i got my BFP and it was a nice feeling i never thought i would happen first time, even if it does not happen 1st time dont think you are failing were all here for you xxxx
     
  3. Babynumber1

    Babynumber1 Mum of 1 & Pregnant

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    hi claire welcome to the forum
    Iv been off birth control for 5 months now and i find it had to track my cycles to i had 2 faint lines on the ovulation stripes and thts it,i dont notice any cm to its so hard isnt it
    I have a clear blue fertility monitor now so im hoing it helps me now
    Hope you track your cycles better this month,and good luck xx
     
  4. FunkyClaire

    FunkyClaire Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for the welcome! Hmm might have to look into that fertility monitor if it's any good. Fingers crossed for us all. xxx
     

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