Hi everyone! I'm very very new to all this so please bear with me. Me and my husband have just agreed (finally) that we will begin trying to get pregnant this year. I'm 33 and kind of feel like it's now or never, even though the timing isn't perfect. But when will it ever be perfect? We've considered it long and hard, we're both quite cautious types who do have a tendancy to over-think a little bit (especially the negative points such as no sleep or money, dirty nappies, complete life upheaval etc etc). I was feeling quite excited about the prospect of starting our own little family but now that we've agreed that we will begin trying this year, I'm feeling quite apprehensive about the whole thing! Is this normal? None of our friends have children and we've not spent a vast amount of time with any so we're going in to this pretty much blind. Can anyone reccommend good web sites or books to read for information? And could anyone reccommend a good brand of vitamins with folic acid for me. I've read you should take these for 1-3 months before trying to concieve so want to start taking them asap. Any advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.