kaylynn040485
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Well im 16 weeks pregnant and told my boss quite early on and he seemed fine to start with but thing have changed!!
Ive been classed as high risk because i bled a few times early on so have had more appointments than normal, so 2 weeks ago i got an app card through for an app today which i gave my boss straight away. The app was for 11:40 but because i stay a fair bit from work it would mean i wouldnt go in in the morning, go to app then come in after which he seemed fine about! Until yesterday!
About 2pm yesterday my supervisor came and told me my boss had said i was to come to work,then leave for my app at 10:30 because he had googled my jouney an thats how long i would need!!!!! This was crazy because my bus alone take about an hour and a half and because i was told last week i have siatica and am in constant pain with it i was planning on getting another bus from town to hospital (i would normally wlk which takes me about 20 mins), which i had told my boss about so was defo gonni miss my app going by his time.
My supervisor told me it was nothing personal and he was just in a bad mood (like thats my problem). So by the end of day yesterday i was totally worked up and told my supervisor that my boss was basically leaving me two options, to miss app or phone in sick and lose a days wages! So i said unless something changes and i got a phonecall last night i wouldnt be in.
Heard nothing and this morning i had to phone in sick, im terrified im gonni lose my job because of this but felt i had no other option and since phoning my supervisor has phoned my house and mobile 5 times and sent me a txt saying that she spoke to my boss last night and he said i could go whenever i needed to ( dont know why she couldnt phone me last night) and that he knew it was wrong to put me in this position!
So was wondering if anyone knew where i stand with this, im feeling a bit better since i got the txt as they r basically admitting it was them but im just really worried i could lose my job!
Sorry its soooooo long
Ive been classed as high risk because i bled a few times early on so have had more appointments than normal, so 2 weeks ago i got an app card through for an app today which i gave my boss straight away. The app was for 11:40 but because i stay a fair bit from work it would mean i wouldnt go in in the morning, go to app then come in after which he seemed fine about! Until yesterday!
About 2pm yesterday my supervisor came and told me my boss had said i was to come to work,then leave for my app at 10:30 because he had googled my jouney an thats how long i would need!!!!! This was crazy because my bus alone take about an hour and a half and because i was told last week i have siatica and am in constant pain with it i was planning on getting another bus from town to hospital (i would normally wlk which takes me about 20 mins), which i had told my boss about so was defo gonni miss my app going by his time.
My supervisor told me it was nothing personal and he was just in a bad mood (like thats my problem). So by the end of day yesterday i was totally worked up and told my supervisor that my boss was basically leaving me two options, to miss app or phone in sick and lose a days wages! So i said unless something changes and i got a phonecall last night i wouldnt be in.
Heard nothing and this morning i had to phone in sick, im terrified im gonni lose my job because of this but felt i had no other option and since phoning my supervisor has phoned my house and mobile 5 times and sent me a txt saying that she spoke to my boss last night and he said i could go whenever i needed to ( dont know why she couldnt phone me last night) and that he knew it was wrong to put me in this position!
So was wondering if anyone knew where i stand with this, im feeling a bit better since i got the txt as they r basically admitting it was them but im just really worried i could lose my job!
Sorry its soooooo long